{"id":189,"date":"2022-08-31T20:48:25","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T20:48:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=189"},"modified":"2025-03-05T13:41:12","modified_gmt":"2025-03-05T13:41:12","slug":"how-to-flirt-with-girls","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Flirt: The Secret to To Turning Girls On"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating Advice<\/a> &gt; Flirting Guide<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: January 31, 2025<\/small><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1491\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/start-saying-this-1024x576.png\" alt=\"how to flirt with a girl\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/start-saying-this-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/start-saying-this-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/start-saying-this-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/start-saying-this.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>How to Flirt with Girls (Complete 2024 Guide)<\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it- if you want to talk to a girl, hook up with her, and get her back to your place, then you need to know\u00a0<strong>how to\u00a0flirt with a girl<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve all been there; you start talking to a girl, it seems to be going okay, but there just doesn\u2019t seem to be any <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-chemistry-with-woman\/\">\u201cchemistry.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s not giving you any signs (she is- I\u2019ll explain them below) and soon you run out of steam.\u00a0 And then decide it\u2019s probably better to end the conversation.\u00a0 That way you avoid the awkwardness of <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/run-out-things-to-say\/\">running out of things to say<\/a> or being rejected.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t know <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-talk-to-women\/\">how to talk to women<\/a> in that flirtatious way, eventually you will wind up boring her and losing her interest.<\/p>\n<p>Women always wind up with the guy who KNOWS how to turn her on by being playful and flirty.<\/p>\n<p>I speak from experience.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a decent looking guy who is in good shape, makes good money, and has lots of friends.\u00a0 But until I learned the essential flirting skills I was always stuck in the friend zone.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re shy, insecure, or just clueless about <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">how to \u201cspark attraction\u201d<\/a> in a woman that you\u2019re talking to, then you\u2019re going to enjoy this article, as I\u2019m going to lay out an easy to \u201caction plan.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>The 2025 Flirting Guide<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#flirting-faq\"><strong>Skip to Our Flirting F.A.Q.<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>The Flirting Basics:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/verbal-foreplay\/\">A Guide to Verbal Foreplay<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/8-flirting-topics\/\">8 Conversation Topics for Flirting<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-when-you-flirt\/\">What to Say to Girls You&#8217;re Flirting With<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/spark-vibe-with-girl\/\">5 Ways to Spark the &#8220;Flirty Vibe&#8221; with a Girl<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-formulas\/\">4 Easy Flirting Formulas\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-chemistry-with-woman\/\">The #1 Secret to Chemistry<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Flirty phrases and lines:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\"><strong>5 &#8220;Words&#8221; That Turn Women On<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/banter-lines-to-use-on-girls\/\">10 Banter Lines to Use with Girls<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/13-flirty-lines\/\">13 Flirty Lines That Move Things Sexual<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/3-lines-that-attract-women\/\">3 Powerful Lines That Make Her Want You<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-tips\/\"><strong>Use &#8220;THESE&#8221; 3 Phrases to Heat Things Up<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-ways-to-make-her-win-you-over\/\"><strong>5 &#8220;Flirting Lines&#8221; to Make Her Win You Over<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-ways-to-make-her-win-you-over\/\">Make Her Feel Like She&#8217;s Winning You Over<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Flirting with Girls Over Text:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/funny-flirty-texts-to-send-a-girl\/\"><strong>Funny Flirty Texts to Send a Girl<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/10-rules-of-texting-a-girl\/\">10 Rules for Text Flirting<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-over-text\/\">Cocky and Funny Text Exchange<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>How to be Funny &amp; Flirty:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-make-a-woman-laugh\/\">How to Make a Girl Laugh<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chick-crack\/\"><strong>5 Techniques to Create a Funny\/Flirty Vibe<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-role-playing\/\">Using Flirty &amp; Funny Role-Plays<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/funny-flirting-with-girls\/\">Humor and Flirting Explained<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Non-Verbal Flirting:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/4-ways-to-touch-a-girl\/\"><strong>4 Ways to Start Touching a Girl<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/nonverbal-flirting\/\"><strong>How to Flirt with Gestures &amp; Glances<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Flirting Mistakes to Avoid:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/7-flirting-mistakes\/\">7 Things &#8220;Nice Guys&#8221; Get Wrong with Flirting<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wussy-mistakes\/\"><strong>2 &#8220;Friend Zone&#8221; Mistakes To Avoid<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/neediness\/\">Avoid Being &#8220;Needy&#8221; When Flirting<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-flirting-style-mistakes\/\">5 &#8220;Flirting Style&#8221; Mistakes Men Make<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a name=\"flirting-faq\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Common Questions About Flirting<\/h2>\n<h3>What is Flirting?<\/h3>\n<p>I think that one of the reasons so many guys struggle with the skill is because they don\u2019t really know what it is.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they think it&#8217;s the cheesy dialogue they see on soap operas, or worse, they think <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/basics\/flirting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">flirting<\/a> means that you give a woman over the top compliments.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cComplimenting\u201d is NOT is the right way to do it.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, until a woman feels attraction for you, you should probably avoid <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/guide-to-complimenting-girls\/\">complimenting<\/a> her, and instead, concentrate on an \u201caction plan\u201d I\u2019m about to give you below.<\/p>\n<p>So what exactly is flirting?<\/p>\n<p>It is a fun, playful way of communicating with a woman that lets her know you\u2019re interested in her, without coming right out and saying it. Instead you do things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Tease her<\/li>\n<li>Banter with her<\/li>\n<li>Turn your conversation with her into a sort of \u201cgame\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Become \u201cpartners in crime\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>What Vibe Should You Give Off?<\/h3>\n<p>Flirting is about <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chick-crack\/\">creating a positive, playful vibe<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Flirting is all about keeping things light, cheerful, and only subtly sexy, so don&#8217;t try too hard to be &#8220;seductive&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>And the point of flirting is to get her into a happy, carefree state of mind.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;So she stops thinking about problems at work, the fight she just had with her best friend (or maybe the boyfriend that&#8217;s waiting for her at home=).<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;And starts feeling playful, and adventurous!<\/p>\n<p>To achieve this you need to smile big and keep your body very RELAXED when you first approach her.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you can put your feet up &#8216;loosen your tie&#8217; if you&#8217;re wearing one\u2026lean back in your chair or rest your arms behind your head.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure you laugh and smile a lot, and AVOID any heavy topics. Even if she tries to talk about personal problems or politics or whatever, steer the conversation in a different direction right away!<\/p>\n<p>You could even <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/telling-stories-on-date\/\">tell her a funny story<\/a> about something slightly embarrassing that happened to you (this actually works REALLY well!).<\/p>\n<p>Because once she see&#8217;s that YOU don&#8217;t take yourself too seriously, she will loosen up also.<\/p>\n<p>In fact,\u00a0<strong><em>she will actually start to feed off your positive energy<\/em><\/strong>, which will make her want to keep hanging around you\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026even if that means following you to BED!<\/p>\n<h3><strong>How to Start Flirting with a Girl?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bkIwOjQHnnM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>How to Flirt by Teasing a Woman<\/h2>\n<p>After you&#8217;ve put her in fun, spontaneous mood, it&#8217;s time to <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/spark-sexual-tension\/\">add a bit of tension<\/a> to your interaction, just to keep her on her toes!<\/p>\n<p>And teasing (or making jokes at her expense) is a great way to do this.<\/p>\n<p>But for teasing to be a turn on, it&#8217;s important to find a happy medium between jabs that are too innocent to get her attention\u2026and comments that are actually offensive (so as a rule, don&#8217;t pick on her appearance.)<\/p>\n<p>Instead, try teasing her about being:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>too pretty<\/li>\n<li>or too smart<\/li>\n<li>or too ambitious.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>PRO TIP:<\/strong> Choose something that you actually really LIKE about her and jokingly act like it&#8217;s a bad thing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Example<\/strong>: If she has a great body, tease her about how much time she must spend at the gym&#8230; or if she loves reading, tell her she needs to &#8220;get out more&#8221; etc.<\/p>\n<p>The teasing should be good hearted and fun, and should not be offensive or rude.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always best to tease a woman on something she says, the way she is acting, or something you notice about her.<\/p>\n<p>When you learn to listen and observe a girl you begin to quickly find this you can flirt and tease her about. Things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Being \u201cblonde\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Seeming \u201cbossy\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Being \u201cgullible\u201d or \u201cnaive\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Having a \u201cwild side\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Or you can simply challenge her.<\/p>\n<p>A great way to flirt with a girl is to have a \u201cmock\u201d competition with her over something.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, I\u2019ve goaded smart girls into having a spelling bee with me.\u00a0 It&#8217;s just a fun, playful way to get the two of you engaged in some sort of \u201cgame.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You can also tease a woman without ever opening your mouth.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You can tease a woman by getting in her way so she can\u2019t walk past you.<\/li>\n<li>You can swat her with a straw<\/li>\n<li>Tickle her<\/li>\n<li>Or do the old \u201cyou\u2019ve got something on your shirt\u201d routine.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>99.9% of Girls Fall for THESE 5 Flirting Tricks<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9-mQT0_m1P8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><strong>What are examples of flirting lines?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When you\u2019re first learning how to flirt with girls it\u2019s good to have some \u201ccanned\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-tips\/\">flirting lines<\/a> you can use at any given time.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s hard to think of original things to say.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few lines I like to use to \u201ctease\u201d women quickly in the conversation.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If a girl says something nerdy I will say \u201cYou usually hang out at the library don&#8217;t you?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>If a girl spills her drink I will say \u201cBartender, I think you need to cut her off\u201d<\/li>\n<li>If a girl is acting a little spoiled say \u201cLooks like someone put their cranky pants on this morning<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are just <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/banter-lines-to-use-on-girls\/\">a few examples of flirty lines<\/a> that you can say.<\/p>\n<h2>3 Cocky Funny Flirting Tricks<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oyQZ5Cvdxcc\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/quiz\/4\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Take the 10-Question &#8220;Attraction Quiz&#8221; (get your score)<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Can you Flirt if you&#8217;re Not Funny?<\/h2>\n<p>Here is are some flirting tips I learned as began to pay attention to more and more men who were successful with women?.<\/p>\n<p>Most of them aren\u2019t that funny.<\/p>\n<p>Most of them have an average sense of humor just like you and me.<\/p>\n<p>The difference is they don\u2019t depend on being \u201cfunny\u201d to flirt with women.<\/p>\n<p>They naturally understood something that took me years to figure out?<\/p>\n<p>Flirting isn\u2019t being \u201cfunny.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Flirting is communicating with a woman<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-teasing\/\"> in a \u201csexual\u201d way<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And there are DOZENS of ways to do this.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, a whole lot of \u201cflirtatious communication\u201d can take place without you ever even opening your mouth.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Smiling at a woman at just the right moment is flirting.<\/li>\n<li>Letting a woman catch you checking her out is flirting<\/li>\n<li>Winking at a woman right in middle of her telling you off, is flirting<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Does Flirting require touching her?<\/h3>\n<p>Like I said, flirting should NOT be explicitly sexual.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, if you act like you&#8217;re just paling around with her like she\u2019s \u201cjust a friend\u201d she&#8217;ll immediately start to wonder why you don\u2019t seem attracted to her.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026And it will instantly <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-more-attracted\/\">make her want you<\/a> (even if she didn&#8217;t before)!<\/p>\n<p>So you can continue building the suspense by <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/4-ways-to-touch-a-girl\/\">giving her a taste of your touch<\/a>, but in way that keeps her guessing.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t do anything obvious like putting your hand on her lower back, or rubbing her thigh.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Because that will give away your plan, and put HER back in control of the situation.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, pretend there&#8217;s something icky caught in her hair and reach over to pick it out.<\/p>\n<p>Or challenge her to a &#8220;thumb war&#8221; or arm wrestling contest.<\/p>\n<p>Or say you want to teach her a secret handshake (that has lots of steps!).<\/p>\n<p>Sure, it might seem a little juvenile, like pulling a girl&#8217;s pigtails on the playground.<\/p>\n<p>But the &#8220;silly touch&#8221; technique is actually <u>extremely<\/u>\u00a0POWERFUL!<\/p>\n<h3>How to flirt with body language?<\/h3>\n<p>One of the most important things to remember is that what your body is saying. This is almost important as what is coming out of your mouth.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of times, guys are too nervous talking to women.\u00a0 And their body language displays things such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bad posture<\/li>\n<li>Nervous ticks<\/li>\n<li>Unconfident eye contact<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>All of these things can undermine what you are saying to a girl, and make her think you\u2019re really not as \u201ccool\u201d as you\u2019re pretending to sound.<\/p>\n<p>This is why it is important to display sexy body language along with the words that come out of your mouth and the teasing and banter lines.<\/p>\n<h3><strong> Examples of Flirty Body Language:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Slowly smiling at her (not an obnoxious or nervous grin)<\/li>\n<li>Briefly touching her as you talk<\/li>\n<li>Appearing relaxed and laid back<\/li>\n<li>Holding eye contact<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you combine these things with good verbal flirting skills then you\u2019ll do a great job of getting the girl to give you the signals that she likes you.<\/p>\n<p><b>See also:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/nonverbal-flirting\/\">5 Ways to Flirt without Saying a Word<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/4-ways-to-touch-a-girl\/\">The 4 Best Ways to Touch a Girl While Flirting<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Do You Ever Get &#8220;Serious&#8221; When Flirting?<\/h3>\n<p>Up until this point you&#8217;ve been keeping it light, fun, and very casual.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s time to suddenly break that pattern and get a little more serious.<\/p>\n<p>Switch to a slightly deeper, <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/best-conversation-topics-dating\/\">slightly sexier topics of conversation<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Like a movie or love song that recently made you cry, or a goal you&#8217;d like to accomplish.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026or tell her something about yourself that you&#8217;ve :<em>never told anyone before\u201d<\/em>(even if you have!).<\/p>\n<p>This unexpected change of pace will make her heart beat a little faster, make her feel emotionally connected.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and make YOU suddenly seem mysterious, complex, and alluring!<\/p>\n<p>Remember to change your body language during this step too: Lean in, deepen your voice, and make meaningful eye contact.<\/p>\n<h3>How to Know if a Woman is Flirting with You?<\/h3>\n<p>It can be a major main to be left wondering if a girl is flirting with you or just being nice?<\/p>\n<p>Now when you flirt with a woman in a way that attracts her you\u2019ll begin to notice that women will:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make excuses to keep talking to you<\/li>\n<li>Touch you more (putting her hand under your shirt, or feeling your muscles)<\/li>\n<li>Getting jealous when you talk to other girls<\/li>\n<li>Laughing at your jokes (even the ones that aren\u2019t that funny)<\/li>\n<li>Leaning in and grinding up against you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So below are some of the best indicators.<\/p>\n<p>If I\u2019m talking to a girl and start to sense a \u201cvibe\u201d here are some articles explaining what I look for to determine if she is feeling it to.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/tell-if-a-girl-likes-you\/\"><strong>How to tell if a girl likes you (or is being friendly)<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How I Learned How to Flirt with a Girl<\/h2>\n<p>I was standing near behind an extremely hot woman waiting to order a drink. She was sipping a mixed drink from a straw. Something made her laugh and she blew into the glass and the drink poured out.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to talk to this girl so I desperately searched my mind for something witty to say. I drew a blank.<\/p>\n<p>So instead of forcing something unfunny or awkward, I waited for the exact moment she looked up at me and our eyes met, and simply shook my head back and forth and gave her one those looks that says &#8220;Can&#8217;t take you anywhere.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She then turned to her friends and started chatting with them. I squeezed in to order my drink. My mind, still trained to make the same mistakes I talked about earlier, is now racing to find something funny to follow up with.<\/p>\n<p>While the bartender was handing me my drink, one of her friends turned and asked me some question. I then turned into the group of three girls. I said something that made the group laugh. I then caught eyes with the one I was interested in and gave her subtle look that said &#8220;don&#8217;t spill it this time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The girl was a little tipsy. Not stupid drunk, but buzzed enough to know she was a little drunk. Later in the conversation she starts telling me a story about something that had happened to her the night before. She is excited about the story and talking quite fast. She trips over a word or two.<\/p>\n<p>I then give her a look similar to the Rock&#8217;s eyebrow raise. Not a blatant eye brow raise, but a look that says &#8220;you lost me sweetie.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She then slapped my chest and said &#8220;stop it&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s on.<\/p>\n<p>What I learned during that interaction was that flirting is just as much non verbal as it is verbal.<\/p>\n<h2>3 Key Flirting Tips With Women<\/h2>\n<p>There were three key factors I discovered about how to flirt that quickly took my game to the next level. And I want to share these flirting tips with you:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Timing<\/li>\n<li>Subtleness<\/li>\n<li>Facial expressions and glances<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Every interaction has a beat.<\/p>\n<p>And once you learn to get in tune with the beat of an interaction, your social intelligence will appear to sky rocket. The great stand up comedians have mastered the art of timing. Rent videos of some of the all time greats and study how they use timing.<\/p>\n<p>When the woman at the bar spilled her drink I waited for the right moment. I didn&#8217;t rush to make a comment, making my interest too apparent. And I didn&#8217;t wait until later to use it as a joke. I simply waited for the inevitable moment that our eyes met, and subtly shook my head. She smiled.<\/p>\n<p>And the dance began.<\/p>\n<p>I hope by reading this you\u2019re encouraged to go out there and create these \u201csexual communications\u201d with women, without waiting for the perfect thing to say.<\/p>\n<p>Flirting with women is a skill, and you must learn how to flirt if you want to seduce them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-talk-to-women\/\"><strong>The Complete Guide to Talking to Women<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\"><strong>The Psychology of Female Attraction<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\"><strong>How to Arouse a Woman<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-get-girlfriend\/\"><strong>How to Get a Girlfriend<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating Advice &gt; Flirting Guide by Bobby Rio \u2022 Updated: January 31, 2025 How to Flirt with Girls (Complete 2024 Guide) Let\u2019s face it- if you want to talk to a girl, hook up with her, and get her back to your place, then you need to know\u00a0how to\u00a0flirt with a girl. 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