{"id":1939,"date":"2022-12-05T15:23:46","date_gmt":"2022-12-05T15:23:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=1939"},"modified":"2024-06-11T13:28:51","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T13:28:51","slug":"5-ways-to-make-her-win-you-over","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-ways-to-make-her-win-you-over\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Make Her Win You Over"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">Flirting<\/a> &gt; Make Her Win You Over<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio \u2022\u00a0<\/small><small>Updated: June 05, 2024<\/small><\/p>\n<p><small><strong>See also<\/strong><\/small><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Girls Will Chase When You Say &#8220;THIS&#8221;<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\">5 &#8220;Words&#8221; That Turn Women On<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-make-a-girl-obsessed-with-you\/\">How to Make a Girl Obsessed with You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-462\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/imageedit_20_9247690026.jpg\" alt=\"make her win you over\" width=\"959\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/imageedit_20_9247690026.jpg 959w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/imageedit_20_9247690026-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/imageedit_20_9247690026-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 959px) 100vw, 959px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>THESE 5 &#8220;Flirting Lines&#8221; Make Her Feel Like She&#8217;s Seducing You<\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever been in a situation where you&#8217;ve been <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-talk-to-women\/\">talking to a girl<\/a> for awhile, maybe even known her for awhile&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Could be a woman you&#8217;re just meeting at a party, or maybe a co-worker you talk with a lot, a girl from your social scene&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And there&#8217;s a connection, there&#8217;s good conversation, a lot of rapport&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You can tell she genuinely enjoys talking to you..<\/p>\n<p>But its always at that platonic level, and now you want to move things forward, but you don&#8217;t know how&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>In this article, I&#8217;m going to explain a very simple way to to do it&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>5 Ways to Let Her Win You Over<\/h2>\n<p>Hi, I&#8217;m <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/\">Bobby Rio<\/a>, and in this article I want to teach you a simple thing I learned, that allows you to shift gears and start pursuing a girl&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m going to give you 5 ways to do it, in a way that doesn&#8217;t make it weird for her. I should actually rephrase that, because it&#8217;s more about it feeling weird to us.<\/p>\n<p>Like we&#8217;re nervous, she&#8217;s going to think we were only talking to her because we secretly liked her, and now we&#8217;re going to make a move, and she&#8217;s going to think that was our plan the whole time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever been there?<\/p>\n<p>I can remember this time I met this girl Alexa at a networking event, and we hit it off immediately.<\/p>\n<p>We start talking, we separate from the rest of the group.<\/p>\n<p>And we had a lot in common, and we were both introverts, and introverts enjoy those <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/conversation-with-girls\/\">deeper conversations<\/a>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So we kept getting deeper, and within a couple hours, we just have this intense rapport.<\/p>\n<p>The problem was, there was ZERO FLIRTING the entire time.<\/p>\n<p>So now, in my head, I want to <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">transition it to flirting<\/a> and showing interest&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But part of me feels like, it makes me seem phony that I was talking to her about all these things&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And now I&#8217;m just gonna make a move like every other guy.<\/p>\n<p>Like that was my agenda the whole time.<\/p>\n<p>And because of that, I wound up never making a move.<\/p>\n<p>Years later, I figured out how to transition towards showing your interest, without being weird or come across like that was your intention the whole time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Now, a lot of guys in that situation will just randomly <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/guide-to-complimenting-girls\/\">compliment<\/a> her at some point.<\/p>\n<p>But that comes across really clunky.<\/p>\n<p>And a lot of times even is she was into you a bit, that clunkiness takes a little air out of the balloon for her.<\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s a better way to do it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And this also something that works in almost every situation with a woman.<\/p>\n<p>And its a big part of what we teach&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Give Her the Feeling She&#8217;s Winning You Over<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s the idea of giving her the feeling like she&#8217;s winning you over.<\/p>\n<p>And what this means is that instead of it coming across like you were talking to her this entire time just to get into her pants.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you were enjoying her conversation, but she did things that seduced you, that won you over, and now even though it wasn&#8217;t your intention&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re suddenly interested.<\/p>\n<p>For a woman, this is actually what she wants.<\/p>\n<p>Women want a man where she feels like she had to work a bit to win him over.<\/p>\n<p>So I want to share with you five ways that you can give a girl the feeling that she&#8217;s winning you over.<\/p>\n<p>So the first way, is to compliment through connection.<\/p>\n<h2>Use &#8220;Romantic Tension&#8221; to Ignite the Chase<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Jej8HfNTwtw\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/technique\/\"><strong>Watch the Scrambler Video<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>#1: The Connection Compliment<\/h2>\n<p>Now I said earlier, its clunky if you give her a random compliment on her looks or eyes.<\/p>\n<p>But, you want to slowly start approving of her.<\/p>\n<p>So for instance, I remember that girl Alexa was really into jazz&#8230; so what I could have siad was something like<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I really like you&#8217;re into jazz, for some reason it just fits you&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So the reason this works is because now it puts the attention on your opinion of her&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re no longer both telling stories about your friends or vacations, the conversation has now turned to your impression of her.<\/p>\n<p>And this now opens up opportunities to flirt a bit.<\/p>\n<p>But you&#8217;re doing it in away that makes it feel like you&#8217;re slowly noticing things you like about her.<\/p>\n<p>Now, a fun way to do this, let&#8217;s say a girl has an accent. It could be anything, I&#8217;m from NJ, so people say I have a NJ accent..<\/p>\n<p>You just say, <em>&#8220;I love your accent, it&#8217;s so cute.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Then do an exaggerated version of it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Again, you&#8217;re changing the temp of the conversation, but not in a clunky way.<\/p>\n<h2>#2: Qualifying Questions<\/h2>\n<p>So, again, If I&#8217;m talking to Alexa, maybe I say something like <em>&#8220;So what&#8217;s the coolest thing about you, that most people don&#8217;t know&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, there are two good things about a question like this.<\/p>\n<p>One, it&#8217;s a temperature gage. What I mean is, if she gives you a crappy answer, like &#8220;nothing really&#8221;&#8230; its a good sign she doesn&#8217;t really like you that much, or else she&#8217;d be trying to impress you.<\/p>\n<p>So, if she does put a little effort into her answer, it shows that she&#8217;s trying to impress you.<\/p>\n<p>And you can reward her for it.<\/p>\n<p>And if she says something unexpected you can even use that to transition.<\/p>\n<p>You can say something like <em>&#8220;I would have never thought that about you, it makes me look at you in a totally different way&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s something interesting&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There was a <a href=\"https:\/\/study.com\/academy\/lesson\/the-gain-loss-principle-of-aronson-linder.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychological study<\/a> that says we are most attracted to a person when that person originally wasn&#8217;t attracted to us, but then changed their mind about us.<\/p>\n<p>So, with a line like &#8220;it makes me look at you in a totally different way&#8221; you&#8217;re giving off the impression that you just changed your mind about her.<\/p>\n<p>So now, when you move towards flirting, it comes across more genuine.<\/p>\n<p>Ok, so the next one, is sort of the opposite of that.<\/p>\n<h2>#3: Breaking Rapport<\/h2>\n<p>While <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-rapport-with-woman\/\">creating rapport<\/a> is important, sometimes it begins to hurt your chances with a girl.And in this case, you wait until she says something you don&#8217;t agree with. Something playful, not politics or anything like that.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she says her favorite ice cream is strawberry.<\/p>\n<p>You can say something like, <em>&#8220;oh man, I was totally starting to like you, I was gonna make my move and everything, but Strawberry, you just ruined it&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, all you really did there was acknowledge the elephant in the room, that you were thinking of making a move.<\/p>\n<p>But you said it in a way where you said &#8220;I was starting to like you&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So, she was winning you over. But she also knows that you&#8217;re not really gonna stop liking her just because she likes strawberry ice cream.<\/p>\n<p>And now, you&#8217;re on a more flirtatious level, and you can see how she responds.<\/p>\n<p>If she&#8217;s cold about it, you kind of know maybe she&#8217;s not into you. But ideally, she starts trying to win back your interest.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;C&#8217;mon I like chocolate too, or whatever&#8221;<\/em> anything that gives you a chanced to re-approve of her again.<\/p>\n<p><small><strong>See Also:<\/strong><\/small><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/25-lessons-on-women\/\">25 Things Women Want You to Do<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/romantic-tension-women\/\">#1 Way to Charm a Girl into Chasing You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-formulas\/\">4 Easy Flirting Formulas to Use<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>#4: Intimacy Framing<\/h2>\n<p>The next one I call &#8220;Intimacy Framing&#8221;, and that&#8217;s where you bait her into complimenting you or saying something about you that you can make it seem like she&#8217;s winning you over.<\/p>\n<p>So one that I&#8217;ve used in the past is:<\/p>\n<p><strong>She Has a Good Intuition For People:<\/strong>\u00a0 <em>\u201cYou know, I get the sense from you that you almost a little bit psychic. I bet you have a really good intuition for people. I bet you, when your friends bring over a boyfriend who\u2019s bad news, you know right away, right?\u201d I\u2019ll be like, \u201cYeah, so what\u2019s your intuition of me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And normally, if the connection was good, she&#8217;ll say something nice about you.<\/p>\n<p>So you can use it to transition. By saying something like: <em>&#8220;Are you just saying that to get me to like you? It might be working, just a little bit.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>#5: The Cold Read Compliment<\/h2>\n<p>Now, the fifth was is another variation on <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/cold-reading-girls\/\">cold reading<\/a>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And all you&#8217;re doing is using &#8220;cold reading&#8221; as an opportunity to tell her she&#8217;s attractive.<\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s an example:<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;You know one of the things I\u2019ve noticed from listening to you a little bit is that you\u2019re a really self-motivated person: like I bet you are the type of person if there is something you want, you go after it no matter what. Like I bet in high school there was some boy or some cheerleading spotter or dance queen position that you wanted and you just went after it and I really think that\u2019s attractive even though I think you are kind of a weirdo.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So, there is a lot of stuff packed into that.<\/p>\n<p>First, the obvious is you&#8217;re telling her you think something is attractive about her&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But then you&#8217;re pushing her away a bit with &#8220;even though I think you&#8217;re a weirdo&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Which leaves some tension there.<\/p>\n<p>Does he like me, does he not like me.<\/p>\n<p>But, more a subtle thing is you frame her as someone who goes after what they want.<\/p>\n<p>And people like to live up to a reputation.<\/p>\n<p>So if she agrees that she&#8217;s the type of person who goes after what they want, or a boy she wants.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;ll be more likely to be comfortable expressing her interest in you. Because you just told her you like that quality about her.<\/p>\n<p>Make sense?<\/p>\n<p>So all five of these are ways to give her the impression she&#8217;s winning you over.<\/p>\n<p>This idea of her winning you over, makes up a huge part of the technique I teach called <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\">The Scrambler.<\/a>..<\/p>\n<h2>#1 Sexual Cold Reading Technique<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-452\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/img.png\" alt=\"strawberry field framing\" width=\"417\" height=\"411\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/img.png 417w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/img-300x296.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/seductionroadmap.com\/strawberrytest\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Download the Word-for-Word Technique<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><small><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/small><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\">How to Arouse a Woman (Guide)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-women-want-you-to-do-in-bed\/\">What Women Want in Bed (Guide)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">How to Attract a Woman (Guide)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/tell-if-a-girl-likes-you\/\">How to Tell if She Likes You (Guide)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Flirting &gt; Make Her Win You Over by Bobby Rio \u2022\u00a0Updated: June 05, 2024 See also 99.9% of Girls Will Chase When You Say &#8220;THIS&#8221; 5 &#8220;Words&#8221; That Turn Women On How to Make a Girl Obsessed with You THESE 5 &#8220;Flirting Lines&#8221; Make Her Feel Like She&#8217;s Seducing You If you&#8217;ve ever been [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1939","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1939"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1939\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2143,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1939\/revisions\/2143"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}