{"id":210,"date":"2022-08-30T20:49:21","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T20:49:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=210"},"modified":"2022-09-15T23:07:08","modified_gmt":"2022-09-15T23:07:08","slug":"stop-girl-from-getting-bored","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/stop-girl-from-getting-bored\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Ways to Stop a Girl From Getting Bored (And Pulling Away)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a> &gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Stop Girl Getting Bored\u00a0<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: August 30, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><small><strong>See also<\/strong><\/small><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-girls-pull-away\/\">Avoid These Mistakes When a Girl &#8220;Pulls Away&#8221;<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-girl-think-about-you\/\">How to Make a Girl Think About You Non-Stop<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Girls Will Chase You When You Say THIS<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1386 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/6-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"stop a girl from getting bored\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/6-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/6-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/6-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/6.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>How to Stop a Girl From Getting Bored with You<\/h2>\n<p><em>\u201cAs much as people want to control the things around them, they are also, somewhat paradoxically but completely understandably, most attracted to those things they cannot control.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Such is the downfall of <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-nice-guys-fail\/\">the typical &#8220;nice guy&#8221;<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He senses a girl wants \u201csecurity\u201d and \u201ccertainty\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n<p>So he gives it to her thinking he\u2019s providing her what she wants.<\/p>\n<p>She soon gets bored and leaves.<\/p>\n<p>As Rob and I try to BEAT INTO YOU\u00a0<a title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">while teaching you The Scrambler<\/a>, women crave uncertainty.<\/p>\n<p>What does this mean?\u00a0 And how do you provide the uncertainty they crave?<\/p>\n<p>Here are four ways to keep her toes and stop a girl from getting bored with you and &#8220;pulling away&#8221;\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>#1:\u00a0 No promises, No Future Expectations<\/h2>\n<p>As a guy our natural instinct when a girl starts displaying some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/browse\/vulnerability\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vulnerability<\/a> or insecurity is to try to comfort her and her ease her worries.<\/p>\n<p>She may say things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201care we gonna hang out again?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhat is this?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhere is this going?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Any variation of that her is asking you for some sort or promise.<\/p>\n<p>DO NOT give it to her.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a trap.<\/p>\n<p>And once you\u2019ve made the promise she has what she *thinks* she wants\u2026<\/p>\n<p>And will soon become too comfortable with you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead say <em>\u201cI\u2019m having a lot of fun with you, but I can\u2019t make any promises into the future. We\u2019ll have to see how things go.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>#2:\u00a0 Hold Back Info to Stop a Girl From Getting Bored<\/h2>\n<p>Its tempting to want to reveal as much about yourself early on in hopes that you\u2019re attracting her.<\/p>\n<p>Whether we\u2019re fishing for things in common, trying to impress her, or simply trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/run-out-things-to-say\/\">keep the conversation flowing<\/a>\u2026 its too easy to reveal too much info too soon.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s SO MUCH better to leave certain questions unanswered, and sprinkle in a dash of intrigue by purposely avoiding answering the question or changing the subject.<\/p>\n<p>If not, she solves the \u201cmystery of you\u201d too soon.\u00a0 And has very little reason to continue reading the book.<\/p>\n<p>Become an onion that she gets obsessed with pealing back your layers.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a balancing act that we teach our students to perfect in Unlock the Scrambler.<\/p>\n<h2>#3:\u00a0 Leave Her Guessing Your True Intentions<\/h2>\n<p>Girls will often ask you \u201cSo will there be other girls at the party?\u201d or maybe a few weeks into a new relationship she\u2019ll ask \u201cAre you still seeing other girls?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My standard answer to that question for a very long time was \u201cYes, but you know you\u2019re my favorite.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Or in an overly exaggerated tone \u201cNever. I would never do that.\u201d (with a smirk)<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d say in a way that left them wondering if I was serious or joking.<\/p>\n<h2>How to Use &#8220;Romantic Tension&#8221; to Make Her Chase<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Jej8HfNTwtw\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/technique\/\">Discover the Scrambler Technique<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>#4: Make fun of &#8220;Nice Guys&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>One of my favorite things to do to stop a girl from getting bored is point out chumps who get walked all over by women.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll mention how a friend of mine\u2019s girlfriend doesn\u2019t let him go out with his friends, or won\u2019t have sex with him.\u00a0 And I\u2019ll say \u201cI don\u2019t know why he doesn\u2019t just find someone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Basically, I\u2019ll point out that I have <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/abundance-mindset-women-chase\/\">a mindset of abundance<\/a> towards the prospects of meeting new girls.<\/p>\n<p>You can also do this if you\u2019re watching a movie or TV show with a girl and one of the male characters is acting like a chump.<\/p>\n<p>These are four ways to add a little uncertainty to keep a relationship from getting boring\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Now, with a girl who ALREADY is losing interest, you\u2019ll have to add a few more steps to \u201cinterrupt her current perception\u201d of you\u2026<\/p>\n<p>In that case, I recommend\u00a0reading this <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\">complete step-by-step breakdown of The Scrambler technique.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Following these tips will stop a girl from betting bored and &#8220;pulling away&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attraction-tests\/\">5 &#8220;Tests&#8221; That Tell You if a Woman Wants You<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chick-crack\/\">&#8220;THESE&#8221; Techniques are Like Crack for Girls<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-a-girl-miss-you\/\">7 Ways to Make a Girl Miss You<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/regain-upper-hand-with-girl\/\">Here&#8217;s how to Regain the &#8220;Upper Hand&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/no-contact-rule\/\">The &#8220;No Contact Rule&#8221; Explained<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating &gt; Attraction &gt; Stop Girl Getting Bored\u00a0 by Bobby Rio \u2022 Updated: August 30, 2022 See also Avoid These Mistakes When a Girl &#8220;Pulls Away&#8221; How to Make a Girl Think About You Non-Stop 99.9% of Girls Will Chase You When You Say THIS How to Stop a Girl From Getting Bored with You [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-210","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=210"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/210\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1827,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/210\/revisions\/1827"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}