{"id":2172,"date":"2024-08-20T14:12:48","date_gmt":"2024-08-20T14:12:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=2172"},"modified":"2024-08-20T14:12:48","modified_gmt":"2024-08-20T14:12:48","slug":"how-to-act-when-a-girl-likes-you","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-act-when-a-girl-likes-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Act When a Girl Likes You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>\u00a0&gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-likes\">Signs<\/a> &gt; How to Act When a Girl Likes You<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio\u00a0<small>\u2022\u00a0<\/small><\/small><small>Updated: August 24, 2024<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-girls-pull-away\/\">Do NOT do THIS When a Girl \u201cPulls Away\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/girl-is-hot-and-cold\/\">Why Girls Act \u201chot\u201d and \u201ccold\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/7-signs-a-girl-is-not-interested\/\">7 Signs She\u2019s NOT Into You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2177\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/imageedit_1_2266434598-1024x576.png\" alt=\"how to act when she likes you\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/imageedit_1_2266434598-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/imageedit_1_2266434598-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/imageedit_1_2266434598-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/imageedit_1_2266434598.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Do THIS, When a Girl Likes You<\/h2>\n<p>One of the most important things to understand as a man is what to do when things are working with a woman&#8230;so you don&#8217;t screw it up.<\/p>\n<p>When you use a lot of the material you&#8217;re learning about dating and <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">attraction<\/a>, you&#8217;ll start to notice that so many more women are <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/tell-if-a-girl-likes-you\/\">showing you interest<\/a> and giving you attention.<\/p>\n<p>Girls will start to do and say things that clearly indicate that they like you. sometimes it will be a touch, sometimes a smile, sometimes a compliment, and sometimes they&#8217;ll just come out and tell you. BUT these things WILL happen more and more as you get better and better.<\/p>\n<p>And it is very easy to mess things up and quickly lose that attraction she\u2019s feeling if don\u2019t know what to do. So that\u2019s what we\u2019re going to cover in this article.<\/p>\n<h2>3 Things to Do When She&#8217;s Giving Signs She Likes You<\/h2>\n<p>At some point, we\u2019ve all been in the situation, where maybe we\u2019re at a party, and we start talking to a girl, and we hit it off. And she stays near us, she keeps the conversation going, and she\u2019s even ignoring her friends to continue talking to us.<\/p>\n<p>So.. how do we make sure we don\u2019t screw up? Because I can think of plenty of times from my own life, where I was in this situation, and I thought I had it \u201cin the bag\u201d&#8230; And then POOF, it was like the \u201clight of attraction\u201d went off in her eyes. And I went from being the attractive guy she was into, to a friendly guy at the party she had zero interest in.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever been in a situation like that, or just wondering how to act when a girl likes you, I want to share some advice that my clients have found valuable.<\/p>\n<p>And it comes down to three things, and these are these three things we\u2019re going to cover:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1.) First, you have to know how to recognize when a girl is into you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You have to know how to differentiate between a girl who\u2019s being friendly vs. a girl who\u2019s being flirty and giving off legitimate interest signs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2.) Then you have to know the big mistakes to avoid when a girl is into you, so that her interest doesn\u2019t quickly fade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>3.) And finally, you have to know how to amplify that attraction she\u2019s feeling, so that you can move things along to the next level\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>How to Tell if She Likes You?<\/h2>\n<p>So let\u2019s start with how can you tell if a woman is doing something that says &#8220;I like you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Well, it&#8217;s very important to remember that women are far more subtle than men (most of the time, that is). Women do SMALL things. A little touch. A sly smile. Sometimes she\u2019ll make a comment like &#8220;You&#8217;re so cute&#8221; . But then it&#8217;s often gone.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019re like, &#8216;was I imagining that?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>When a man is hitting on a woman, she knows. We\u2019re pretty easy to read. But women are notorious for sending mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s something interesting\u2026<\/p>\n<p>A lot of times, her \u201cinterest signals\u201d will be a test, and we fail. Meaning, she\u2019ll make a comment that reveals interest in us, and we respond in a way that causes her to go, <em>\u201cwait a minute, maybe this guy isn\u2019t as attractive as I thought\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, a big thing to understand with women is this:<\/strong> Just because she&#8217;s doing something that says &#8220;I like you,&#8221; don&#8217;t think that it means, &#8220;<em>I like you no matter what<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Attraction isn\u2019t black or white. It&#8217;s more of a thermostat, that is continually increasing or decreasing based on HER FEELING in the moment.<\/p>\n<p>So, what I tell guys is, it&#8217;s good to <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attraction-tests\/\">have a way to test her interest level<\/a>. This way\u00a0you at least have a barometer of where you are RIGHT NOW.<\/p>\n<p>Now there are a variety of &#8220;tests&#8221; you can use to gage her interest. But I&#8217;m going to give you the easiest one. And that&#8217;s to see if she\u2019ll MOVE with you.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How to Move a Girl to Test Her Interest Level<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re at a party talking to a woman, you can ask her if she wants to take a walk with you outside to get some fresh air? Or if the two of you are standing, you can say, \u201clet\u2019s see if we can find somewhere to sit\u201d. If she says yes and follows you, it&#8217;s a sign that at the moment she\u2019s interested.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s very similar if you\u2019re on a date with a woman. See if she\u2019ll change venues. If you\u2019re in coffee shop with her, say \u201cThere\u2019s a great Gelatto place down the street, want to go grab one?\u201d Normally if she\u2019s NOT into you, she\u2019ll say \u201cMaybe next time\u201d. So if she goes, it&#8217;s a sign that she&#8217;s feeling some level of attraction and wants to keep the date going.<\/p>\n<h2>More Ways to Test If a Woman Likes You<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/IPpfsSgOkGs?si=Pn7CtQZpQloIzViq\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"yt-core-attributed-string--link-inherit-color\" dir=\"auto\">==&gt; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unlockherlegs.com\/readhermind\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Discover 88 Ways to Read Her Mind<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Avoid Turning into a &#8220;Nice Guy&#8221; When You Get Interest From Her<\/h2>\n<p>That said, It&#8217;s much better to interpret subtle &#8220;I like you&#8221; cues as &#8220;I like you for a second&#8230; Because if you start acting lame, it will all be over in an instant. Unfortunately for most guys, they take &#8220;I like you&#8221; signals to mean &#8220;You&#8217;ve won my approval, now you can do whatever you want&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>And what do they do?<\/p>\n<p>They<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-nice-guys-fail\/\"> turn into a total \u201cnice guy\u201d<\/a> and wind up ruining it. So, usually, you\u2019re being fun, challenging, teasing her or whatever\u2026 And then she does something that signals interest in you, and all of the sudden now you&#8217;re acting different. You start talking about different things. You&#8217;re giving her compliments. You&#8217;re being NICER.<\/p>\n<p>And what happens?<\/p>\n<p>She goes <em>\u201cOh, he seemed cool, but he\u2019s just like all the other guys\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Remember, most of the time when you&#8217;re saying something that you think is nice, charming, and original., it&#8217;s something that a woman has heard about 47 times that week from other guys.<\/p>\n<p>Why does this happen?<\/p>\n<p>A lot of times, it&#8217;s because guys, \u201cnice guys\u201d especially, we do something I call: Playing NOT to LOSE. Instead of playing to WIN.<\/p>\n<p>It means once we sense we have her approval, we get scared of losing it. So we change our behavior, even if that behavior was what was attracting her in the first place. And what that tells her is that you\u2019re not used to a girl liking you. So the first sign you get from a cute girl and you go into \u201cnice guy\u201d mode.<\/p>\n<h2>If She Likes You, You MUST Escalate<\/h2>\n<p>Now before I tell you what to do, I want to tell you one more mistake I know I made plenty of times. And that\u2019s something I call \u201cselling past the close\u201d. It&#8217;s a term from sales, where someone was ready to buy&#8230; But the salesman keeps trying to sell them, and winds up talking them out of buying.<\/p>\n<p>This why at a certain point on a date or when talking to a woman at a bar or a party, you have to make a decision; Can I <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-your-move-on-girl\/\">escalate<\/a> tonight?<\/p>\n<p>Meaning, can I move it to the next level.<\/p>\n<p>The next level can be something as simple as sitting and rubbing her hand as you talk. But it&#8217;s something that solidifies the attraction, and<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\"> introduces some intimacy between you and her.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Now, if things are going well, that could mean inviting her back to your place for a drink. If you&#8217;re somewhere alone, it could mean leaning for a kiss.<\/p>\n<p>Now.. sometimes it just won&#8217;t be possible to escalate. And if its NOT possible to escalate, then you\u2019re always better off leaving on a high note.<\/p>\n<p>Because what often happens is, you\u2019re at a party, a woman is interested, and now for the next two hours you keep talking to her. And talking&#8230; And talking&#8230; And trying to impress her, and tell another joke&#8230; And at some point, there\u2019s a law of diminishing returns.<\/p>\n<p>And that &#8220;attraction thermostat&#8221; will start dropping.<\/p>\n<h2>How to Increase the Attraction She Feels When She Likes You<\/h2>\n<p>Ok, so what about when you first notice the attraction, how do you increase and amplify it?<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something that women call <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/spark-sexual-tension\/\">&#8220;Sexual Tension.&#8221;<\/a>\u00a0 It&#8217;s also known as <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-chemistry-with-woman\/\">Chemistry<\/a> or Attraction as well.<\/p>\n<p>When you <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">flirt with a woman<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-make-a-woman-laugh\/\">make her laugh<\/a>, play hard to get with her, act unpredictably, etc. in the right way&#8230; You will create this tension.<\/p>\n<p>This is what usually leads to a woman saying something like &#8220;You&#8217;re cute&#8221; or &#8220;I like you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the tension that makes her feel it and say it.<\/p>\n<p>This Is EXACTLY When You Need To Dial Things Up. Don&#8217;t diffuse it all by saying <em>&#8220;You&#8217;re cute yourself&#8221;<\/em> or <em>&#8220;I like you, too.&#8221;<\/em> Or by smiling like a jackass who just won the lottery.<\/p>\n<p>This kind of thing releases the tension, and it usually takes that wonderful electric attraction feeling and instantly kills it.<\/p>\n<p>So when she likes you, and you\u2019re getting the signs she likes you, this is when you want to<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/13-flirty-lines\/\"> INCREASE the tension<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So if a woman says \u201c<em>you\u2019re really cute<\/em>.\u201d And you look at her and smirk, and say <em>\u201cI know\u201d<\/em>. You\u2019re increasing the tension, because you\u2019re doing the opposite of what she expects, which weirdly draws her in more.<\/p>\n<p>Women are drawn to this tension.<\/p>\n<p>You can also amplify the tension with a technique called Push\/Pull. The idea behind it, is you&#8217;re both pulling her toward you, then pushing her away.<\/p>\n<h2>3 Flirting Tricks to Make Her Want You More<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/IA5GoUM-y0k?si=WZiZqF8MHTldsqsj\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><small><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/small><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chick-crack\/\">THIS is Like \u201cChick Crack\u201d for a Girl<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-tips\/\">Use These 3 Flirting Techniques for Attraction<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\">5 \u201cWords\u201d That Turn All Women On<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><strong>Examples of Push\/Pull<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><em>\u201cYou\u2019re adorable\u2026 like my bratty little sister\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Or a physical example of push pull would be maybe\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>You&#8217;re adorable, give me a hug.<\/em>\u201d Hug her for a second, then go: \u201c<em>Ok, that enough<\/em>.\u201d And playfully push her away.<\/p>\n<p>Make sense?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s one way to keep the tension alive.<\/p>\n<p>How else can you do it?<\/p>\n<p>Another example of this tension is when things start getting quiet. Now, the average guy is really uncomfortable with tension&#8230; So anytime there is a lull in the conversation, he feels an immediate need to say something to break the silence.<\/p>\n<p>But instead, lean into it.<\/p>\n<p>Be comfortable with things slowing down for a minute. And use that moment to increase the tension by holding eye contact slightly longer than normal. Just kind of look at her, and don\u2019t be in a rush to talk right away.<\/p>\n<p>I alluded to this earlier, but at some point you want to escalate. Because <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-a-move-on-female-friend\/\">if you don\u2019t escalate you wind up in the friend zone<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This is where a lot of guys mess up. I used to be guilty of this. Where I\u2019d have this <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/conversation-with-girls\/\">great conversation with a girl<\/a>, I\u2019d be getting the interest signals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And then one of two things would happen:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1) I just wouldn\u2019t know how to move things forward.<\/p>\n<p>2) I have this hesitation, because part of me would be like, she seems to like me, but if I make a move, she\u2019ll think \u201coh, he\u2019s like all the other guys just looking for sex\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So instead, I\u2019d try to parlay the interaction into another meetup, telling myself I\u2019ll escalate things then.<\/p>\n<p>But really, ESCALATION is ATTRACTIVE.<\/p>\n<p>Because, again, it increases the tension.<\/p>\n<p>Now escalation doesn\u2019t mean you have to lunge in for a kiss.<\/p>\n<p>One of the simplest things you can do is when she says something interesting, or she maybe she says something you can tell she\u2019s trying to impress you. Just look at her, with a sort of \u201cgood job\u201d expression.<\/p>\n<p>And put your hand up like you\u2019re going to high five her.<\/p>\n<p>And when she puts her hand out to yours, just sort of grip it for a second, caress her hand for a second, and then go back to talking.<\/p>\n<p>Or instead you can say, &#8220;let\u2019s grab a drink&#8221;, put your hand out, and hold her hand and guide her through the party holding hands.<\/p>\n<p>Now you\u2019ve added that intimacy, that is attractive, and increases the tension.<\/p>\n<p>Now, this framework of creating and amplifying tension.<\/p>\n<p>This continues throughout the dating process.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">Say \u201cTHIS\u201d to Make Her Chase You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-formulas\/\">4 \u201cFlirty Formulas\u201d (with examples)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attraction-techniques\/\">99% of Girls Fall for These 5 Tricks<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Do You Pass Her &#8220;Attraction Tests?&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>Do you know how to respond to the various \u2018tests\u2019 and situations that commonly occur with girls?<\/p>\n<p>Because there are a lot of make or break moments with women, and what i found is that a lot of guys are responding in the WRONG WAY in these common situations.<\/p>\n<p>So, what I did was put together<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/quiz\/4\/\"> a short 7 question quiz<\/a>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>This quiz contains common situations you\u2019ll run into, and then asks you how you\u2019d respond in each situation.<\/p>\n<p>Its multiple choice.<\/p>\n<p>And then you immediately get your results to know how you did.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s funny is a lot of guys assume they\u2019re going to get every question right, then get 5 out of 7 questions wrong.<\/p>\n<p>The quiz is free, you get your results instantly, and <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/quiz\/4\/\">you can take the quiz here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating\u00a0&gt;\u00a0Signs &gt; How to Act When a Girl Likes You by Bobby Rio\u00a0\u2022\u00a0Updated: August 24, 2024 See Also Do NOT do THIS When a Girl \u201cPulls Away\u201d Why Girls Act \u201chot\u201d and \u201ccold\u201d 7 Signs She\u2019s NOT Into You Do THIS, When a Girl Likes You One of the most important things to understand as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-2172","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2172"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2172\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2181,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2172\/revisions\/2181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}