{"id":2249,"date":"2025-03-04T15:45:59","date_gmt":"2025-03-04T15:45:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=2249"},"modified":"2025-03-04T15:51:46","modified_gmt":"2025-03-04T15:51:46","slug":"pua-routines-and-pua-openers","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/pua-routines-and-pua-openers\/","title":{"rendered":"PUA Routines and PUA Openers (word-for-word examples of the best routines and openers)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Pua Openers &amp; Pua Routines<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio\u00a0<small>\u2022\u00a0<\/small><\/small><small>Updated: March 4, 2025<\/small><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13.3333px;\"><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 13.3333px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Women Chase You When You Say &#8220;THIS&#8221;<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 13.3333px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attraction-tests\/\">5 &#8220;Tests&#8221; That Reveal How She Secretly Feels About You<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 13.3333px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/power-over-women\/\">#1 Way to Have Power Over Women<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/4_1-1024x576.png\" alt=\"pua routines and openers\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2255\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/4_1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/4_1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/4_1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/4_1.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Examples_of_the_Best_PUA_Routines_PUA_Openers\"><strong>Examples of the Best PUA Routines &amp; PUA Openers<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Most of us were first introduced to pickup artist (PUA) routines and openers in Neil Strauss\u2019s book The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.<\/p>\n<p><strong>PUA Routine<\/strong> has been defined as the following: PUA routines are canned and scripted material that pick up artists use to pickup girls and hone their skills.<\/p>\n<p><strong>PUA Openers:<\/strong> Opening lines used to get a woman&#8217;s attention in an indirect way. Opinion openers are some of the most popular.<\/p>\n<div id=\"toc_container\" class=\"no_bullets\"><p class=\"toc_title\">Contents<\/p><ul class=\"toc_list\"><li><a href=\"#Examples_of_the_Best_PUA_Routines_PUA_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">1<\/span> Examples of the Best PUA Routines &amp; PUA Openers<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#An_Example_of_an_Attraction_PUA_Routine\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">1.1<\/span> An Example of an Attraction PUA Routine:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#More_examples_of_PUA_routines\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">2<\/span> More examples of PUA routines:<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#The_Best_Friend_Testby_Neil_Strauss\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">2.1<\/span> The Best Friend Test\u00a0by Neil Strauss<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#The_Cube_Routine_by_Neil_Strauss\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">3<\/span> The Cube Routine by Neil Strauss<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#C_And_U_Shaped_Smiles_Routine\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">4<\/span> C And U Shaped Smiles Routine<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Dual_Induction_Massage_Routine\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">5<\/span> Dual Induction Massage Routine<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#The_Ring_Finger_Routine\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">6<\/span> The Ring Finger Routine<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#The_Strawberry_Fields_Game_Routine\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">7<\/span> The Strawberry Fields Game Routine<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#PUA_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">8<\/span> PUA Openers<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#What_is_a_Pua_Opener\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">9<\/span> What is a Pua Opener?<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#What_makes_them_different_then_pick_up_lines\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">9.1<\/span> What makes them different then pick up lines?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#What_should_a_Pua_opener_accomplish\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">10<\/span> What should a Pua opener accomplish?<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Types_of_PUA_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">11<\/span> Types of PUA Openers<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Direct_Pua_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">12<\/span> Direct Pua Openers<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#In-direct_Opinion_Pua_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">13<\/span> In-direct Opinion Pua Openers<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#GimmickyOpeners\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">14<\/span> Gimmicky\u00a0Openers<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Situation_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">15<\/span> Situation Openers<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#5_Best_Pua_Openers\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_1\">16<\/span> 5 Best Pua Openers<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#Bank_Robbery_Opener\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">16.1<\/span> \u2018Bank Robbery\u2019 Opener<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Fashion_Opener\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">16.2<\/span> \u2018Fashion\u2019 Opener<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Drug_Dealer_Opener\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">16.3<\/span> \u201cDrug Dealer \u201cOpener<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Im_Lost_Opener\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">16.4<\/span> \u201cI\u2019m Lost\u201d Opener<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Maury_Povich_Opener\"><span class=\"toc_number toc_depth_2\">16.5<\/span> \u201cMaury Povich\u201d Opener<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n<p>The main purpose of using routines is to provide aspiring pickup artists tested, and proven things to say to women in the field.\u00a0 Often when an aspiring pickup artist first begins his quest to get better with women he is unsure of what to say to women, how to keep a conversation going, or how to build attraction.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, some of the best pickup artists in the world have document their best pua routines and began teaching them to students.<\/p>\n<p>Although there is some criticism of routines, mainly that they make the pickup artist seem to robotic, and \u201ccanned\u201d and limit his ability to display his \u201cnatural\u201d personality, I believe that using routines as training wheels can really help your game when you\u2019re just getting started.<\/p>\n<p>PUA routines are used for many different purposes.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Opener Routines<\/li>\n<li>Attraction Building Routines<\/li>\n<li>Comfort Building Routines<\/li>\n<li>Seduction routines<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Most of these routines are based on several principles that pickup artist tend to stick to throughout their pickups.<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0 Most of these routines will contain elements of DHVs (or demonstration of higher value)<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0 Some of these routines will contain neg hits used to knock a woman off her pedestal.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0 Many of the routines will exemplify the concept of \u201cpush pull\u201d and the \u201ccat on a string theory\u201d<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0 Many routines will contain excuses to initiate \u201ckino\u201d or getting a woman comfortable with you touching her.<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0 Almost all of these routines are designed to entertain a woman long enough so that you can begin to move into seduction mode.<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"An_Example_of_an_Attraction_PUA_Routine\"><strong>An Example of an Attraction PUA Routine:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Here is an attraction example routine, contained within the famous \u201cRoutines Manual.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cI\u2019m a high-end bank robber and art thief, and my team is planning an upcoming heist tomorrow night. I think you could be the perfect decoy. If you\u2019re interested in being a part of the team, there\u2019s not much money in it right now\u2026 I can\u2019t guarantee that your take will be more than $350 million. If you\u2019re okay with that small of an amount, let me tell you what you\u2019ll need to do. Tomorrow night at midnight, while I\u2019m hacking into the alarm system from the van, I\u2019ll need you to show up at the bank wearing a long black trench coat over lingerie and stiletto heels. I\u2019ll provide you a silver metallic briefcase. What you\u2019ll need to do is seduce the 70-year-old night security guard while the rest of my team drills through the wall. Then, at just the right moment, I\u2019ll give you the signal through your earpiece and you\u2019ll press the red button on your briefcase and the vault will explode behind the security guard and you\u2019ll run out to safety unless you\u2019re totally enamored by the old guy. Can you run in heels?\u201d\u00a0<\/em>Kisser- Love Systems Instructor.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is a fun example of how to answer a question you know you\u2019re going to get, like, \u201cWhat do you do?\u201d It does so with a role-play and makes it fun instead of delivering the boring, predictable answers she always hears. After the role-play you should tell her what you actually do so it doesn\u2019t seem like you\u2019re hiding anything\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>An Example of a Comfort PUA Routine<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p>Here is a comfort building example routine, contained within the famous \u201cRoutines Manual.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Question Game Routine:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI have a fun way to get to know new people\u2026 It\u2019s called the Question Game. But there are rules\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRule 1: You ask a question, then me, then you, and so on, back and forth.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRule 2: You have to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Like truth or dare but without the dare because I don\u2019t know how weird you really are.\u201d (Notice the tease.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u201cRule 3: You can\u2019t ask a question that\u2019s already been asked.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRule 4: You have to ask interesting questions\u2026Take advantage of our anonymity. Oh, and\u2026 Rule 5, I ask you a question first.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is a great PUA routine to use because it can stretch throughout the night.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"More_examples_of_PUA_routines\"><strong>More examples of PUA routines:<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span id=\"The_Best_Friend_Testby_Neil_Strauss\"><strong>The Best Friend Test\u00a0<\/strong>by Neil Strauss<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>I like this one, it\u2019s like the cube, it falls into the category of being interesting and true.<\/p>\n<p>Style\u2019s Best Friends Test<\/p>\n<p>YOU: OK, I have to ask: how long have you guys known each other for?<\/p>\n<p>(If you think they\u2019re sisters ask: Are you guys sisters or best friend)<\/p>\n<p>THEM: Blah blah blah<\/p>\n<p>YOU: See, I knew that<\/p>\n<p>THEM: How could you know that?<\/p>\n<p>YOU: Ill show you. In fact, Ill give you the best friends test<\/p>\n<p>THEM: (Gets all excited)<\/p>\n<p>YOU: OK\u00a6 (pretend you\u2019re just about to ask a serious question)<\/p>\n<p>Do you both use the same shampoo?<\/p>\n<p>THEM: (Look at each other and then open their mouths to answer)<\/p>\n<p>YOU: OK, the answer doesnt matter- you already passed.<\/p>\n<p>THEM: Huh?!<\/p>\n<p>YOU: See, if you werent so close to each other, youd have kept eye contact with me as you answered. But when two people have a connection, they look at each other first- kind of like youre doing right now.<\/p>\n<p>THEM: (Laugh)<\/p>\n<p>YOU: See, you dont even need to say anything to each other. Its like you just communicate telepathically.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"The_Cube_Routine_by_Neil_Strauss\">The Cube Routine by Neil Strauss<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-6720\" src=\"https:\/\/tsbmag.com\/img\/pixelimg2.png\" alt=\"pixelimg2\" width=\"230\" height=\"150\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>People seem to be emailing me pretty often about \u201cthe cube.\u201d I believe that I\u2019ve posted this before but here it is again for those too lazy to search the archives \ud83d\ude42 This is a good\u00a0<strong>routine<\/strong>\u00a0to do when you start running out of conversation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>USING THE CUBE FOR SEDUCTION<\/strong>\u00a0<em>by Neil Strauss<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Its an ancient Sufi science of letting somebody know their true-selves.<\/p>\n<p>Answer the questions below first on a piece of paper.<br \/>\nThan notice how you it fits you. You can try this with others.<br \/>\nWARNING: If you plan to run the Cube on yourself, either DO IT NOW or dont read any further!!! Once you know the details, you might not be able to use it on<br \/>\nyourself.)<\/p>\n<p>Are you sure you want this? You might learn things about yourself you never knew?<\/p>\n<p>Imagine a desert.<\/p>\n<p>Whats it look like? Is it a desert like Arizona? Or is it a desert like Sand Dunes in the Sahara?<\/p>\n<p>Is there anything about it in particular that you see that is interesting?<\/p>\n<p>In the desert, imagine a cube.<\/p>\n<p>What does it look like?<\/p>\n<p>What is it made of?<\/p>\n<p>Where is it located in this scene?<\/p>\n<p>What state is it in?<\/p>\n<p>Anything else you can describe of this cube?<\/p>\n<p>(Write down your answers or hers)<\/p>\n<p>Now imagine a ladder.<\/p>\n<p>What is it made of?<\/p>\n<p>How big is it?<\/p>\n<p>How many rungs does it have?<\/p>\n<p>Where is it located in relation to the cube?<\/p>\n<p>(Write your\/her answers down.)<\/p>\n<p>Imagine some flowers.<\/p>\n<p>How many are they?<\/p>\n<p>What kind?<\/p>\n<p>Where are they located in relation to the cube and the ladder?<\/p>\n<p>And now imagine a horse.<\/p>\n<p>What kind of horse is it?<\/p>\n<p>What color?<\/p>\n<p>What size?<\/p>\n<p>What is it doing?<\/p>\n<p>Where in the scenery is it located, in relation to the earlier three things?<\/p>\n<p>Is the horse facing the cube or away from the cube?<\/p>\n<p>Can you describe it in any more detail?<\/p>\n<p>Theres a storm in this landscape.<\/p>\n<p>Where is it in relation to the other things in the<br \/>\nscenery?<\/p>\n<p>Which way is it proceeding?<\/p>\n<p>What kind of storm is it?<\/p>\n<p>Can you describe it in any more detail?<\/p>\n<p>The Cube: represents the womans conception of herself.<br \/>\n&gt;&gt; The Ladder: friends (and family in some cases).<br \/>\n&gt;&gt; The Flowers: Children<br \/>\n&gt;&gt; The Horse: Her lover<br \/>\n&gt;&gt; The Storm: Troubles in life.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look at your answers and see how they fit you.<\/p>\n<p>Now for practice here were the answers I got from a girl when I once did a cube on her.<\/p>\n<p>Her answers follow:<\/p>\n<p>So imagine a desert. Whats it like? Lots of sand? Cactus<br \/>\nanywhere?)<\/p>\n<p>Its very flowing. All sand dunes. The sun is just setting, and theres a beautiful orange glow shimmering off the sand. So I guess its all sand, and no cactus.<\/p>\n<p>(Now imagine a cube. Where is it located in this desert?)<\/p>\n<p>The cube is in the middle, floating just above the dunes. Its made out of bronze. Its a tawny\/goldish color. It had lots of designs etched into it. Flat edges, with swirly rounded designs decorating the middle.<\/p>\n<p>(Now imagine a ladder going to the top of the cube?)<\/p>\n<p>The ladder is made out of wood. it has 5 rungs.<\/p>\n<p>(Now imagine some flowers near the cube?)<\/p>\n<p>3 flowers. Theyre pink with 5 petals each, with a yellow center and one has 2 leaves, and 2 have 1 leaf.<\/p>\n<p>(Now imagine a horse. What does it look like? Does it have a long, big, bushy tail<\/p>\n<p>Is really strong like a race horse? Or more like one that has been stuck in a stable for a long while? What color is this horse? Where is it in relation to your cube?)<\/p>\n<p>The horse is white with gray spots flecked on its hind end. Its rearing on its hind legs, kicking its front hooves into the air. The horse has a black silky, slender tail. Its very strong from running free in the desert. Its standing on the right side of the cube (on its hind legs).<\/p>\n<p>(And finally imagine a storm. Where is this storm located? Is it nearby or far away? Is anything happening in the storm? What kind of storm?)<\/p>\n<p>Its located in the back ground, off in the distance. The storm is very dark, with huge streaks of lightening.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"C_And_U_Shaped_Smiles_Routine\">C And U Shaped Smiles Routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<div class=\"p-content\">\n<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\">\n<div>Here is a popular routine that Neil Strauss used a lot in his book.<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p><strong>C and U shaped smile routine\u00c2\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This one is AWESOME if you\u2019re sarging strippers and models. It\u2019s also completely true.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Style:<\/strong> Smile again for me.<br \/>\n<strong>HB:<\/strong> um, okay.<br \/>\n<strong>Style<\/strong> (to wing): See, she\u2019s a U.<br \/>\n<strong>HB<\/strong>: ????<br \/>\n<strong>Style:<\/strong> I dated a girl who wanted to be a pop star. And she had a theory that people with U-shaped smiles were perceived as unfriendly. And people with C-shaped smiles were perceived as friendly.<br \/>\n<strong>HB:<\/strong> So what\u2019s a U then?<br \/>\nStyle: A U is when your teeth go straight back in your mouth (can add \u201ckind of like a horse\u201d if she\u2019s a SHB). A C is when there\u2019s a big row of pearly whites in the front. And to my ex, it was more than a theory. She actually got her teeth surgically reshaped from a U to a C.<br \/>\nHB: No way.<br \/>\nStyle: And she had me go look at pictures of like Christina Aguilera, who is a U, and Britney Spears, who is a C. Look at the cover of Us or any magazine, and you\u2019ll see that it\u2019s always a C smile on the cover.<\/p>\n<p>From here, me and the target start inspecting the teeth of random strangers looking for the perfect C or U. It\u2019s fun.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"Dual_Induction_Massage_Routine\">Dual Induction Massage Routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Some of you may have pieced this together already from Jlaix and Chessclub\u2019s FRs, but here, for the archives and for posterity, is the step-by-step Dual Induction Massage Sure-Fire Threesome Routine, with credit given where credit is due.<\/p>\n<p>This to me is the biggest breakthrough I\u2019ve had in the last year. Once you cross this barrier (as Jlaix knows), there\u2019s no going back. It changes your whole PU life. No longer are you going out trying to just get a LR, but to bring two of the right women together for a dual induction massage.<\/p>\n<p>This all began one night at the ProHo mansion, when an FB was over and an MLTR did a drop-by. I was in Herbal\u2019s room, sitting there with them both vibing each other, trying to figure out what to do.<\/p>\n<p>I went outside and talked to Mystery, and asked him which girl I should get rid of.<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, Mystery had just been at David D\u2019s DYD seminar. And a gentleman there had talked about getting threesomes by having two girls massage him at the same time. We looked into Herbal\u2019s room, at the two of them talking, and Mystery suggested a couple tactics. I decided, what the fuck, I had nothing to lose.<\/p>\n<p>I took them both up to my room to watch a fun home video clips that I was in. We all lay on the bed, and watched it.<\/p>\n<p>So, here are the steps, once you have them on your bed. Of course, make sure the lights are low and the mood is romantic and comfortable, without being an obvious seduction\/plan.<\/p>\n<p><strong>STEP ONE:<\/strong>\u00a0Tell them, genuinely, \u201cI just experienced the most amazing thing. I went to San Diego and hung out with my friend Steve, who\u2019s like a guru and a shaman, and an amazing guy. And he had two of his students perform a dual induction massage on me. Their hands were moving in perfect synchronization on me, and because your conscious mind can\u2019t follow all those movements, it just disconnects and you feel like there are thousands of hands on you. It was amazing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>[This is true: It was an amazing gift from Steve P., one of the really great and powerful guys I\u2019ve met through this community.]<\/p>\n<p>Now, ideally, the HB getting the massage should be the one who would get the most jealous. She needs to get the attention first to feel comfortable. Also, to make sure this goes smoothly, it\u2019s best if this is someone you\u2019ve *closed or !closed before. It\u2019s best to leave her shirt ON, and just do it over the shirt.<\/p>\n<p>Next, tell the HB who\u2019s doing the massaging that she must follow your hand movements exactly and move in exact synchronization. (I\u2019d recommend taking a seminar in Swedish massage to learn how to do a nice backrub; if you\u2019re in NY, try the Open Center; anywhere else, just do a Learning Annex course.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>STEP TWO<\/strong>: Next, say it\u2019s your turn. Take off your shirt, and lie on your stomach. And definitely show appreciation for what they are doing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>STEP THREE<\/strong>: Afterward, say that it\u2019s the third girl\u2019s turn. Help her out of her shirt, or ask her to take off her shit while she\u2019s facing away from you (if she\u2019s shy), and have her lie on her stomach.<\/p>\n<p>On this girl, you can make the massage more erotic. Go around the breasts and butt and thighs, WITHOUT actually touching any private parts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>STEP FOUR<\/strong>: Now this is the key move. After you finish the massage, let her lay there on her stomach underneath you and the other girl. Pause a moment to build up a touch of tension, then start making out passionately with the other girl (the one who was just doing the massaging with you) over the back of the girl lying down.<\/p>\n<p>Now, just gently turn the face of the girl lying down towards you. Kiss her. Then gently take the head of the other girl and bring it DOWN to the face of the girl lying on her stomach. If you\u2019ve created the mood properly, they\u2019ll just automatically start kissing. Join in for a threeway makeout, and it\u2019s all over.<\/p>\n<p>YOU have to be a conductor, and orchestrate everything. Turn over the girl who was being massaged last, and each take a breast. Then switch off girls. Then roll away and watch them go at it. Then get back in there and help them remove some clothes. Etc. Etc.<\/p>\n<p>However, this can NOT be about your pleasure. In the majority of cases, you are providing an excuse for the girls to get together. So if one of the girls is an MLTR or primary or main FB, make sure that it\u2019s all about HER pleasure. You need to calibrate the comfort level of each girl the whole time. If you start trying to be a porn star too quickly or making it all about you (or making it too explicit where the massage is heading), this could backfire. That said, since I first figured it out (with respect to Mystery and Steve P), it hasn\u2019t failed once.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"The_Ring_Finger_Routine\">The Ring Finger Routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The second you notice she is wearing rings say, \u201cI have to ask before I run, why did you chose to wear that ring on that particular finger?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[She responds].<\/p>\n<p>You continue, \u201cInteresting, I have a friend who\u2019s a spiritual type, and she just told me that the fingers you choose to wear your rings on says something about your personality. Each one of these mounds, the pads on the palm where the fingers join the hand, is represented by a different god. In ancient Greek culture, you\u2019d wear a ring on that finger to praise and pay homage to that particular god.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>From here, go on to explain each finger one at a time. Start by giving a quick rundown explaining each of the fingers she isn\u2019t wearing a ring on. Then, when you get to the fingers that do have rings, spend a bit more time by giving her a more detailed cold read.<\/p>\n<p>Here are sample scripts for each of the fingers, feel free to improvise and modify when needed:<\/p>\n<p>THUMB<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe thumb represents Poseidon. He was extremely independent. He wasn\u2019t up on Mount Olympus. He preferred to be in the sea doing his own thing.<\/p>\n<p>Notice that the thumb kind of sticks out, in a way, it kind of does its own thing as well. People who wear thumb rings are therefore very individual and independent. They don\u2019t follow trends, but instead prefer to set their own.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>INDEX<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe index finger is represented by Zeus. Zeus was the king of all gods and the god of thunder.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s a very dominant finger. It represents power and immense energy. Having a ring there means you tend to be a more dominant person.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>End by waving of your index finger at her as if to say \u201cno no no\u201d or \u201cdon\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>MIDDLE<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour middle finger is represented by Dionysus whois the god of wine and partying. He is an incredibly irreverent god.<\/p>\n<p>Having a ring there means you tend to do whatever you want and care less about what others think.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019re wearing a ring on this finger toss up your middle finger and joke, \u201cIt\u2019s like saying screw you to the world.\u201d This almost always get a laugh.<\/p>\n<p>RING<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour ring finger is of course represented by Aphrodite, the goddess of love. Perhaps that\u2019s why we wear our wedding rings on this particular finger.<\/p>\n<p>When you fall for someone, you tend to fall for them completely.\u201d This is a great spot to deviate from your script and work in some romantic cold-reading.<\/p>\n<p>Conclude with \u201cInterestingly, it is the only finger that has a vein that goes straight to the heart without branching off, so when someone puts a ring on that finger, they\u2019re actually making a direct connection with your heart.\u201d If she\u2019s comfortable, trace a line from her finger up her arm as you say this.<\/p>\n<p>PINKY<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe pinky is represented by Ares, the god of war.You\u2019ll often see mobsters with pinky rings on.<\/p>\n<p>On one hand, your pinky ring is a sign that you have a darker side. However, it also indicates that you\u2019re a great protector of things. If somebody messes with someone you love, you won\u2019t flee from the conflict, you\u2019ll quickly step up to defend them. I bet you can<br \/>\nbe trusted to keep and protect secrets as well. Maybe that\u2019s where the pinky swear comes from.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At the end, you should smile and momentarily lock your pinky with hers.<\/p>\n<p><strong>CONTINGENCIES:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>* If she isn\u2019t wearing rings and you still want to use this routine, then you can begin by saying \u201cLook at your hands and imagine that you\u2019re wearing some rings. Now, tell me which fingers you\u2019re imagining them on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>* If during or after the routine the woman asks,<br \/>\n\u201cHow do you know this?\u201d You may respond, \u201cAn ex-girlfriend of mine was into mythology and taught it to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>* If she wears a ring on her wedding finger then inquire \u201cIs that an engagement ring or do you just wear that to keep the womanizers away?\u201d<br \/>\nYou\u2019ll be surprised how often the latter is true.<\/p>\n<p><strong>QUICK REFERENCE POCKET GUIDE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Thumb = Poseidon representing individuality<br \/>\nIndex = Zeus representing dominance and power<br \/>\nMiddle = Dionysus representing irreverence<br \/>\nRing = Aphrodite representing love and romance<br \/>\nPinky = Ares representing conflict and protection<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"The_Strawberry_Fields_Game_Routine\">The Strawberry Fields Game Routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>To introduce the game say, \u201cHey there is this fun game I know that is going to tell me things about you.\u201d She\u2019ll be curious.<\/p>\n<p>Then go ahead and start: \u201cOkay imagine yourself in a field. It\u2019s a Spring day and you are in a cute Spring outfit, and you are walking through on this really nice day. Birds are circling around you and it just feels comfortable. Off in the distance you see a strawberry field, a sea of green and red, and since you like strawberries, you start walking up to this field. You walk for what seems like a long time and finally you get to the field. How high is this fence around the strawberry field?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If she isn\u2019t sure say, \u201cHow high is it in your mind- there doesn\u2019t have to be a fence if you don\u2019t see one.\u201d Continue: \u201cSo you go inside this strawberry field and walk down the rows of strawberries. You notice they are big, juicy, and ripe. I mean, these are the best strawberries you\u2019ve ever seen in your life. How many do you pick and eat right there?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The last question: \u201cAlright so you ate the strawberries and are very satisfied. You are walking out of the strawberry field but then the farmer stops you. He accuses you of eating his strawberries without asking. What do you say to him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The strawberry game reveals her views on sex because Strawberries represent pleasure and passion to women. There\u2019s a good chance she will figure that out before you are done. The height of her fence represents her barrier to something pleasurable- in other words, her vagina.<\/p>\n<p>An answer you want to hear is, \u201cI don\u2019t see a fence.\u201d I don\u2019t believe in Astrology or psychic power but if a girl tells you her fence is higher than four feet (waist high) she has sexual issues that you may have already identified before administering the the test.<\/p>\n<p>You are going to finesse the first question analysis because if her fence is low you don\u2019t want to imply that she is a slut. Say, \u201cThe height of your fence represents your barrier to intimacy. A lower fence means you do not delay intimacy with a guy you really like, while a higher fence means you consciously postpone intimacy, for whatever reason- maybe you were hurt many times.\u201d Intimacy here means sex, but let her think it means whatever she wants it to mean.<\/p>\n<p>The second question represents her sexual appetite or her desire for sexual variety. Each strawberry is a single sex act with a man. If she gives an answer like, \u201cAs many as I can eat,\u201d then she is impulsive girl who had her share of good times with men.<\/p>\n<p>Say, \u201cThe number of strawberries represents your sexual appetite. A low number means you are generally satisfied with men while a high number means yo are currently satisfied and your sex life is not what you imagined it would be.\u201d Since a majority of girls give a high number, I like telling her the bad news that she is not sexually satisfied because she will be staring at me- the solution.<\/p>\n<p>Tell her the third answer represents what she says after sex. Most girls say \u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d or \u201cThank you, they were delicious.\u201d \u2013 Roosh V<\/p>\n<p>This is a great game that allows you to introduce the topic of sex into the conversation without coming across creepy or desperate. Once you\u2019ve both acknowledge \u201cthe elephant in the room\u201d you\u2019ll both me more at ease around one another.<\/p>\n<p>If you sense that she seems really curious about these sort of games, and you suspect a little more warming up is needed before advancing kino, move directly into another similar routine like 4 questions or The Trust test .<\/p>\n<p>Personally I only recommend using one or two routines like this in the course of a conversation. If you use any more than that it might be overkill. Routines are great ways to keep the conversation going when it idles out a bit.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t suggest making\u00a0cold reading\u00a0or routines the foundation of your conversation\u2026 but they are like adding salt and pepper to a good meal. I realized last weekend that I should be using them more as my cocky\/funny approach can get overbearing\u2026 and a good routine thrown in there can add some spice to the conversation and build some comfort and rapport\u2026 not to mention having the potential to trigger off some tremendous DHVs.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span id=\"PUA_Openers\">PUA Openers<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Everything you need to know about using openers to start a conversation with a woman<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There seems to be a mystery as to what sort of opening lines you should use to start a conversation with a woman.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are you\u2019ve heard some god awful pick up lines over the years.\u00a0 Don\u2019t worry, this page will only talk about using some of the best pua openers I\u2019ve come across over the years.<\/p>\n<p>First, I\u2019m going to give you a brief background about what openers are, and why they work so well.\u00a0 And then I\u2019m going to give you a list of my the best pua openers I\u2019ve used over the years.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"What_is_a_Pua_Opener\"><strong>What is a Pua Opener?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Most of you probably first heard the term pua after reading Neil Strauss\u2019s book The Game.\u00a0 Neil Strauss used a lot of acronyms in the book to describe elements of a sort of sub-culture he was involved in.\u00a0 PUA stands for \u201cPick Up Artist.\u201d\u00a0 Neil refers to the words used to start a conversation as \u201copeners.\u201d\u00a0 So most guys who study game refer to these sort of openers as PUA Openers.<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"What_makes_them_different_then_pick_up_lines\"><strong>What makes them different then pick up lines?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When you think of pick up lines you probably think of some cheesy line like \u201cWhat\u2019s your sign?\u201d\u00a0 Or \u201cDid it hurt?\u00a0 Falling\u00a0from Heaven.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just for the record, none of the opening lines I\u2019ll be talking about are anything like the typical pick up lines your AFC (average frustrated chump) friends have probably advised you to use.\u00a0 In fact, as I go through some of the best openers, you\u2019ll realize that most of them don\u2019t even seem like they are designed to attract women.<\/p>\n<p>What makes a pua opener different then a pick up line is that generally openers do not start out with a strong statement of interest.\u00a0 Instead, most openers leave the woman guessing on your intention.\u00a0 This makes you seem more interesting to the woman.\u00a0 And allows her to put her guard down for a minute and gives you an opportunity to connect with her.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"What_should_a_Pua_opener_accomplish\"><strong>What should a Pua opener accomplish?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The sole job of an opener is said to be to start a conversation with a girl.\u00a0 I disagree a little about this.\u00a0 I believe that a good pua opener just several jobs.<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0 A good opener starts a conversation with a girl in a way that differentiates you from most of the other guys who have approached her in the past.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0 A good opener allows you to start a conversation with a woman in that skips over the normal, boring small talk that kills most approaches pretty quickly.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0 A good opener engages everyone the woman is talking to.\u00a0 When approaching a group you should always open the entire group.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Types_of_PUA_Openers\"><strong>Types of PUA Openers<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Most people who have read Neil Strauss\u2019s book The Game think of openers as mainly asking a woman her opinion on something.\u00a0 But that is just one type of opener.\u00a0 In this section I\u2019m going to outline the most common types of openers.<\/p>\n<p>So generally there are \u2013 I classify about five different ways to start a conversation. One is directly using a direct opener. The second is using an indirect opener. Third is using a gimmicky type of opener. Fourth is a situational type of opener. And fifth is inviting her into a conversation you\u2019re already having.<\/p>\n<p>So let\u2019s talk about the different kinds of openers.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Direct_Pua_Openers\"><strong>Direct Pua Openers<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Now, what a direct opener is, is you\u2019re letting her know your intention immediately. There is no hiding the fact that you have come over here to hit on her. And you can do this by saying something like \u2018Hey, you\u2019re giving off an incredible energy, and I had to come over here and see what you\u2019re deal was\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>What differentiates a direct opener from a standard pick up line is your delivery.\u00a0 You are not complimenting the woman to seek her approval.\u00a0 You\u2019re complimenting her from a place of complete an utter confidence. Your unapologetic attitude is what makes you so attractive to her.<\/p>\n<p>Pros:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Being direct displays massive confidence, assuming you deliver it in a confident manner and it lets a woman know your intention right off the bat.\u00a0 This eliminates any chance of being put in the friend zone.<\/li>\n<li>It allows you to disqualify uninterested women quicker.\u00a0 This will prevent you from spending too much time talking to a woman who is blatantly not interested or who has a boyfriend.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cons:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It takes balls. And if you\u2019re not confident yet, it\u2019s going to be really hard to pull it off.<\/li>\n<li>It gives you less time to build attraction. You\u2019re putting her on the spot. You\u2019re making her, kind of forcing her to make up her mind about you very quickly.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span id=\"In-direct_Opinion_Pua_Openers\"><strong>In-direct Opinion Pua Openers<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Indirect is either making a vague statement, or asking her opinion on something. You\u2019re basically starting a conversation in a way that, in the same way that you would start a conversation with somebody else at the bar.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s just asking opinion on something. An example of that is, \u2018Do I look gay?\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Another one, if you ever saw the \u2018Keys to the VIP\u2019 video with Cajun is, \u2018Do I look like a drug dealer?\u2019 You can ask something along the lines of \u2018Hey, is kissing cheating?\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Pros:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It doesn\u2019t really take a lot of courage to use an opinion opener, which is what\u2019s great about them. It is that you can just use them and there is no pressure right away.<\/li>\n<li>There\u2019s no pressure on the girl, which means that there is a lot more time to build attraction.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cons<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You come across as friendly and non-threatening\u2019<\/li>\n<li>If you don\u2019t know how to follow it up you can spend too much time on the opener.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span id=\"GimmickyOpeners\"><strong>G<\/strong><strong>immicky\u00a0<\/strong><strong>O<\/strong><strong>pener<\/strong><strong>s<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Gimmicky openers are something that it takes a certain type of personality to use.\u00a0 You\u2019re basically using kind of like an outside source to start talking to a girl.\u00a0 It can be something like pretending your doing an interview, using a prop, or doing magic.<\/p>\n<p>Pros<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You differentiate yourself from other guys.<\/li>\n<li>It\u2019s pretty easy to use and it captures her attention.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cons<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You need to have a quick follow up.<\/li>\n<li>You run the risk of appearing like a \u201cdancing monkey\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span id=\"Situation_Openers\"><strong>Situation Openers<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The next type of openers that PUAs use are situational.\u00a0 An example of a situation opener is just turning to a woman you\u2019re next to and making a comment about the environment.<\/p>\n<p>To use a situation opener you just need to become aware of what is going on around you.\u00a0 And as soon as you notice something worth commenting on, you can just turn to the woman and start the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Pros<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They are very easy to use as they are non-threatening<\/li>\n<li>They appear more spontaneous<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cons<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sometimes you can spend way too much time trying to find something worth commenting on and you lose an opportunity to talk to a girl.<\/li>\n<li>These don\u2019t really differentiate you from other men.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So those are the main types of PUA openers that you can use at a bar or club to start a conversation with a girl.<\/p>\n<p>I think you can clearly see that these are way different then using cheesy pick up lines you might have heard used on some sitcom on television.<\/p>\n<p>Now since most of you have already read the book The Game by Neil Strauss, I will not include pua openers listed in that book.\u00a0 Instead, I\u2019m going to list some of the most effective opening lines I\u2019ve used to start conversations with girls.<\/p>\n<p>So if you\u2019ve ever asked yourself \u201chow to start a conversation with a girl?\u201d\u00a0 Here is your answer:<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"5_Best_Pua_Openers\"><strong>5 Best Pua Openers<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>These are 5 openers taken from the Little Black Book of Openers.\u00a0 There are over 175 PUA openers included in the book.\u00a0 The book is completely free and it also comes with a one hour long audio class on how to use PUA Openers.<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Bank_Robbery_Opener\"><strong>\u2018Bank Robbery\u2019 Opener<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cHey girls, are u good drivers? Me and Friend, are robbing bank across the street, and guess what (pause). Driver screwed us. All you need to do is picks us up at XX.00am, and drive to airport. You get 3%.<\/p>\n<p>This always leads into good conversation, with good energy. This is my opener number 1# right now. They always want to negotiate their %. And they will ask for 5%<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Fashion_Opener\"><strong>\u2018Fashion\u2019 Opener<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cI love your style. You\u2019ve got a great look \u2013 you must be very creative.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This opener works well because everyone loves to thought of as being \u201ccreative.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Drug_Dealer_Opener\"><strong>\u201cDrug Dealer \u201cOpener<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Used with a wing at night, with funny, just-got-done-laughing tonality.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHey, I need your opinion on something\u2026does my friend here look like a drug dealer?\u201d (chicks usually either laugh or look quizzically) \u201cBecause we were outside and some dude came up to him and touched him on the shoulder like this\u2026 (cheap kino on girl) and asked, \u2018Hey man, you got some E?\u2019\u201d Ideally you will use this with a wing who doesn\u2019t look too straight-laced.<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Im_Lost_Opener\"><strong>\u201cI\u2019m Lost\u201d Opener<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019m lost\u2026 I can\u2019t find my friends and I\u2019m scared\u2026 Remember when we were kids and you could just make new friends whenever you wanted\u2026 and you said \u2018want to be my friend?\u2019 Do you guys want to by my NEW friend?\u201d<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Maury_Povich_Opener\"><strong>\u201cMaury Povich\u201d Opener<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Even though this pua opener was talked about it the game\u2026 it is too GOOD not to include here:<\/p>\n<p>This one is used to wing your buddy, especially if he\u2019s in a two-set and the obstacle needs to be kept occupied. \u201cHey, my friend here just got invited to be on the Ricki Lake show. But the theme of the show is Secret Admirers. They told him he\u2019s got an admirer, but he won\u2019t find out whom until he\u2019s live on the set. So maybe it\u2019ll be someone cute, but maybe not; it might even be a guy. What would you do if you were him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So those are the PUA Openers I have had the most success with over the years.\u00a0 But I\u2019ve used hundreds of different openers.\u00a0 Some of the openers I made up on the spot\u2026 but most of the openers I\u2019ve used over the years were collected from reading various field reports from different PUAs.<\/p>\n<p>Although the openers above are quite good (and tested)\u00a0 I realize that everyone has different personalities and feel comfortable using different kinds of openers.<\/p>\n<p>So I collected close to 200 of the all-time best PUA openers and compiled them all into a free ebook.\u00a0 It\u2019s called The Little Black Book of Openers and I want to give it to you free.<\/p>\n<p>On the next page, just put your email in the box\u2026 and I\u2019ll send it right over to you.\u00a0 And you\u2019ll have hundreds of new openers you can use tonight.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt;\u00a0Attraction &gt; Pua Openers &amp; Pua Routines by Bobby Rio\u00a0\u2022\u00a0Updated: March 4, 2025 See Also 99.9% of Women Chase You When You Say &#8220;THIS&#8221; 5 &#8220;Tests&#8221; That Reveal How She Secretly Feels About You #1 Way to Have Power Over Women Examples of the Best PUA Routines &amp; PUA Openers Most of us were first [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-2249","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2249","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2249"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2249\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2256,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2249\/revisions\/2256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2249"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}