{"id":252,"date":"2022-09-07T15:53:44","date_gmt":"2022-09-07T15:53:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=252"},"modified":"2022-09-09T18:59:13","modified_gmt":"2022-09-09T18:59:13","slug":"funny-flirting-with-girls","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/funny-flirting-with-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be Funny While Flirting with Girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">Flirting<\/a> &gt; Flirting Humor<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Rob Judge \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: September 07, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99% of Girls Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/verbal-foreplay\/\">Guide to Verbal Foreplay<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-make-a-woman-laugh\/\">How to Make Women Laugh<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1716\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/flirting-humor-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"flirting humor\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/flirting-humor-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/flirting-humor-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/flirting-humor-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/flirting-humor.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Flirting Humor Explained<\/h2>\n<p>There&#8217;s a major misconception that has kept guys from getting laid for years.<\/p>\n<p>The misconception involves humor.<\/p>\n<p>We all know that women love &#8220;men who can make them laugh&#8221;. In fact, women&#8217;s magazines often rank humor <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/traits-girls-chase\/\">THE most attractive quality in a man<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>The Myth of Attractive Humor to Flirt<\/h3>\n<p>However, the misconception lies in understanding attractive humor.<\/p>\n<p>Most guys mistake humor for comedy, believing that if you can&#8217;t tell jokes or perform a standup routine that you&#8217;re doomed to forever be unfunny around women.<\/p>\n<p>This couldn&#8217;t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, &#8220;comedy&#8221; is almost something entirely different from cultivating the ability to &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-make-a-woman-laugh\/\">make women laugh<\/a>&#8221; while flirting with her.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re probably wondering: How so?<\/p>\n<p>In an attempt to keep things simple, let&#8217;s hit the bullet points.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Comedy requires:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Set ups<\/li>\n<li>Punch lines<\/li>\n<li>And very creative twists and character development<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>On the other hand&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Making women laugh requires:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Creating <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/spark-sexual-tension\/\">tension<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Pushing her &#8220;emotional buttons&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>And unpredictability<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Becoming even a mediocre comedian can take a lifetime, whereas becoming good at making women laugh is much, much easier.<\/p>\n<h2>Making Girls Laugh Explained<\/h2>\n<p>Hopefully you understand the stark difference between comedy and getting women to laugh, and so you&#8217;re getting over your doubts and insecurities about &#8220;not being funny enough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In case you&#8217;re still having trouble grasping this, let me just say it again: getting women to laugh is NOT about jokes!<\/p>\n<p>In fact, if you try to use traditional jokes or monologue comedy routines to get women laughing while you <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-tips\/\">flirt with her<\/a>, you&#8217;re probably not only going to fail at getting her laughing, you&#8217;re also going to come across as supplicating and try-hard.<\/p>\n<p>Even guys who can tell funny jokes often don&#8217;t come across as attractive (probably you know a guy who&#8217;s &#8220;hilarious&#8221; yet women just don&#8217;t seem to like.)<\/p>\n<p>Conversely, you&#8217;ve probably seen a guy who can get away with saying absolute stupidity to women, and yet women seem to soak up every word he says.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re erupting into laughing fits before he even finishes his sentences.<\/p>\n<p>Why do women fall for guys like this?<\/p>\n<p>These sorts of guys understand how to use tension, understand women&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/4-chase-triggers\/\">emotional triggers<\/a>, and add a dash of unpredictability to whatever they say.<\/p>\n<h2>Examples of Flirting Humor<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s all well and good to expound upon the theory of laughter, yet theory never made anyone laugh, and especially not a woman!<\/p>\n<p>Thus, let&#8217;s look at some ways to translate theory into practice.<\/p>\n<p>First off, to create tension first requires that you&#8217;re comfortable with that tension.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Example:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, would you be comfortable walking up to a girl you don&#8217;t know and saying, &#8220;I hate you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If the idea makes you uncomfortable, then you probably need to work on your &#8220;social tension muscle&#8221; a bit more.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you feel pretty confident that you can strut over to an attractive girl you&#8217;ve never met and tell her that you hate her, you&#8217;re off to a good start.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, the girl will probably react in a surprised and\/or negative way.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what you want.<\/p>\n<h2>Getting a Girl to Laugh Requires Unpredictability<\/h2>\n<p>Keep in mind: getting women to laugh require a degree of unpredictability.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, once you tell her that you hate her, you immediately want to say something unexpected.<\/p>\n<p>You might say, <em>&#8220;Because you wore that black dress you know I love&#8221;<\/em> or <em>&#8220;Because when you get all dolled up like this, I have no choice but to hit on you shamelessly.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Basically, you want to say something she&#8217;s not expecting, and reverses the emotion she felt when you told her you hated her.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind, this just an example, and not even a particularly funny one.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, I chose it because I hope you see how &#8220;unfunny&#8221; getting women laughing can be.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need to be a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0001674\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Chris Rock<\/a> to get her giggling.<\/p>\n<p>Simply understand the &#8220;theory&#8221; behind getting women giggling as you flirt with her, and don&#8217;t be afraid to get your hands a little dirty.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, leave yourself plenty of room to fail.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re going to get this the first time you attempt it. Simply begin getting yourself comfortable during moments of tension. From there, you&#8217;ll begin to develop a &#8220;feel&#8221; for how to get women laughing.<\/p>\n<p>Now get out there and attract some girls with your sense of flirting humor!<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-formulas\/\">4 &#8220;Flirting Formulas&#8221; That Work<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/examples-of-good-texts\/\">Steal THESE 7 Text Messages (to send her)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/13-flirty-lines\/\">13 Flirty Lines That Make Her Want You<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-talk-to-women\/\">How to Talk to Women (Step-by-Step)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/guide-to-complimenting-girls\/\">Ultimate Guide to Complimenting Girls<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Flirting &gt; Flirting Humor by Rob Judge \u2022 Updated: September 07, 2022 See Also 99% of Girls Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d Guide to Verbal Foreplay How to Make Women Laugh Flirting Humor Explained There&#8217;s a major misconception that has kept guys from getting laid for years. The misconception involves humor. We all [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-252","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=252"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/252\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1717,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/252\/revisions\/1717"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}