{"id":347,"date":"2022-10-13T12:56:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-13T12:56:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=347"},"modified":"2022-10-13T12:56:03","modified_gmt":"2022-10-13T12:56:03","slug":"misreading-girl-signs","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/misreading-girl-signs\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Know if You&#8217;re Misreading Her Signs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a> &gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/tell-if-a-girl-likes\">Signs<\/a> &gt; Misreading a Girl&#8217;s Signs<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Coaching Staff \u00a0\u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: July 31, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-girls-pull-away\/\">Do NOT do THIS When a Girl \u201cPulls Away\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/hot-and-cold-formula\/\">The \u201cHot\u201d and \u201cCold\u201d Formula<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/texts-that-reveal-how-she-feels\/\">15 Texts That Reveal How She Feels<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1760\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/misreading-a-girls-signs-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"misreading a girls signs\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/misreading-a-girls-signs-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/misreading-a-girls-signs-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/misreading-a-girls-signs-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/misreading-a-girls-signs.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Are You Misreading a Girl&#8217;s Signs?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The worst feeling in the world is not knowing where you stand with a woman you like.<\/p>\n<p>Unsure if you\u2019re in the <a href=\"ttps:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-a-move-on-female-friend\/\">friend zone<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>The\u00a0key to deciphering her actions\u00a0is to ask yourself the right questions, consider how (and how often) she\u2019s making an effort, and not to be afraid of an answer you might not like.<\/p>\n<p>This article walks you through the 5 keys to interpreting the signs she is giving off.<\/p>\n<h2>Key #1: Who Does The Initiating<\/h2>\n<p>Guys, your ego can get in the way when you consider the signs she\u2019s giving off.<\/p>\n<p>A foolproof way of making sure it doesn\u2019t is to ask yourself this one question:<\/p>\n<p><em>Who is the one initiating?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Are you the one putting in the all effort to get her time and attention? Or is she meeting you halfway?<\/p>\n<p>Dating is a lot like tennis. It\u2019s a good <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-signs-shes-just-not-into-you\/\">sign that she\u2019s interested in you<\/a> if the split is about 50\/50- sometimes you make the effort, sometimes she reciprocates.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re the one doing all the work, it\u2019s all but guaranteed that the \u201csigns\u201d you are seeing are actually not what you\u2019re hoping they are. You\u2019re grasping for something she isn\u2019t putting out.<\/p>\n<h2>Key #2: Her Body Language<\/h2>\n<p>Words are cheap, especially when you are trying to get a read on a girl you like.<\/p>\n<p>Take a moment to observe her body language the next time you are with her.<\/p>\n<p>Here are things to look for:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Smile<\/strong>\u2013 When does she smile? If it\u2019s after you\u00a0say something funny, that\u2019s a good sign. If she\u2019s not smiling at least every couple of minutes, that\u2019s not a good sign for your dating prospects.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Hands<\/strong>\u2013 Does she move her hands a lot? Is she playing with her hair or fidgeting? Chances are, these are good signs of her interest in you. Flirty girls subconsciously hope you are looking at them and move around a lot as a result.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Eye contact<\/strong>\u2013 Eye contact must be present. She probably thinks you\u2019re weird if she isn\u2019t looking at you when you talk. At the very least, she\u2019s not paying attention to you, which is another bad sign.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure if you are misreading her signs, meet in person and see where you stand.<\/p>\n<h2>5 &#8220;Attraction Tests&#8221; That Uncover How She Feels<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/IPpfsSgOkGs\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/88ways\"><strong>Download 88 Ways to Read Her Mind<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Key #3: How She Dresses When She Sees You<\/h2>\n<p>Another fool-proof question to ask that will tell you how interested she is:<\/p>\n<p><em>Is she making an actual effort when you\u2019re around?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>There are very few girls that won\u2019t take an extra few minutes to look good for a guy they are interested in.<\/p>\n<p>If she\u2019s clearly well kept and wearing a nice outfit, you\u2019re probably reading her signs correctly. Bonus points if you\u2019ve made plans to do something active (hike, walk, etc.), because that means she\u2019s prioritized looking good over being comfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, she might be funny and you might be feeling the chemistry. But if she\u2019s showing up with no make up on or wearing sweat pants, you might not want to get too far ahead of yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>Key #4: Her Favorite Subjects To Discuss<\/h2>\n<p>If all she talks about is herself, there\u2019s a good chance that any signs you\u2019re reading from her don\u2019t hold much weight.<\/p>\n<p>Girls that only talk about themselves are not actively engaged in the relationship- however new it is- and are focused on themselves. Short and long term prospects are bleak as a result.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are whether she likes you or not, are girl like that isn\u2019t the type you want to date anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Other than small talk, she should be asking you questions about your life, work, and your friends. This is a sign that she\u2019s at least slightly interested, at least enough to show you she wants to know more.<\/p>\n<p>A good place to start is with this article on\u00a0<strong>10 things women say (and what they really mean)<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Key #5: Don\u2019t Wait To Find Out Your In The Friend Zone<\/h2>\n<p>This is the easiest way to figure out if you are misinterpreting her signs:<\/p>\n<p><em>Ask her.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean you text her out of the blue saying, \u201cDO YOU LIKE ME?\u201d. Have some tact and\u00a0be subtle.<\/p>\n<p>Being confident and vulnerable is something women appreciate. Don\u2019t feel weird about asking her to be honest.<\/p>\n<p>But in some cases, this situation might not call for the blind ask yet.<\/p>\n<p>If for some reason this option doesn\u2019t appeal to you, or it\u2019s too soon, simply make a habit of being objective about how she talks and acts with you.<\/p>\n<p>Separate your desires to date her from how she acts around you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get upset if the data suggests you\u2019re in the friend zone.<\/p>\n<p>On the one hand, you\u2019ll come off as way, way less aggressive than most guys. Being subtle suggests you are more confident.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, you still have a chance to change how she feels. You\u2019ve surely dated a girl that you at first weren\u2019t sure about, and it works the same for girls. Give her more time around you, don\u2019t quit just because it\u2019s not there yet, and maybe she\u2019ll decide you\u2019re her type after all.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/25-lessons-on-women\/\">25 Things Women SECRETLY Want Men to Do<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/power-over-women\/\">#1 Way to Have &#8220;Power&#8221; Over Women<\/a><\/small>&lt;<\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/abundance-mindset-women-chase\/\">THIS Makes Her Fight For Your Attention<\/a><\/small>&lt;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>7 Ways to Uncover Her True Feelings<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZnUYPzlRy80\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\">Learn the Step-by-Step &#8220;Scrambler&#8221; Technique<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating &gt;\u00a0Signs &gt; Misreading a Girl&#8217;s Signs by Coaching Staff \u00a0\u2022 Updated: July 31, 2022 See Also Do NOT do THIS When a Girl \u201cPulls Away\u201d The \u201cHot\u201d and \u201cCold\u201d Formula 15 Texts That Reveal How She Feels Are You Misreading a Girl&#8217;s Signs? 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