{"id":361,"date":"2022-08-31T13:37:47","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T13:37:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=361"},"modified":"2022-09-09T18:44:31","modified_gmt":"2022-09-09T18:44:31","slug":"text-slow-down-interest","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/text-slow-down-interest\/","title":{"rendered":"If Her Texts Slow Down Is She Losing Interest?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-likes\">Signs<\/a> &gt; Text Slow Down<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: August 31, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-girls-pull-away\/\">Do NOT do THIS When a Girl \u201cPulls Away\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/girl-is-hot-and-cold\/\">Why a Girl acts &#8220;hot&#8221; and &#8220;cold&#8221;<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-signs-shes-just-not-into-you\/\">5 Signs She\u2019s Just Not Into You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1690\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/her-texts-slow-down-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"if her texts slow down is she losing interest\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/her-texts-slow-down-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/her-texts-slow-down-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/her-texts-slow-down-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/her-texts-slow-down.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Why Has She Gone \u201cCold\u201d Over Text?<\/h2>\n<p>Have you ever been talking to a girl and all the sudden:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She stops texting you as much?<\/li>\n<li>Or her texts just don&#8217;t seem to have the same interest level as they used to?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What does it mean and how you should you handle it? That&#8217;s what we&#8217;re going to be talking about in this article.<\/p>\n<p>So, if a woman stops sending as many texts does it mean she&#8217;s losing interest?<\/p>\n<p>The short answer is yes.<\/p>\n<p>But there might be more to it, as I&#8217;ll explain.<\/p>\n<h3>Are you Getting the \u201cSlow Fade\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>There is nothing worse than getting that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach that something has changed in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes all it takes is for\u00a0a girl to take ten minutes longer than she normally does to respond\u00a0and you just know something is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>I can remember the exact moment I knew with this girl Anne I had gone on a few dates with. She was normally a prolific texter. She would text me often and her texts were usually paragraphs.<\/p>\n<p>So she had been texting me a lot.<\/p>\n<p>But one random Tuesday no texts came in. I tried to shrug it off. But something in my gut started ringing the alarm bell.<\/p>\n<p>Sure enough, later that day she still hadn&#8217;t sent her daily message.<\/p>\n<p>So I sent one to her. And after about fifteen minutes she replied. But there was something &#8220;cold&#8221; about her response.<\/p>\n<p>While on the surface she was still being nice, there wasn&#8217;t that reciprocation to keep the conversation going that there had always been in the past.<\/p>\n<p>A couple weeks later she disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>So what happened?<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/girl-is-hot-and-cold\/\">Understanding a Girl&#8217;s Hot and Cold Behavior<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/texts-that-reveal-how-she-feels\/\">15 Texts That Reveal How She Secretly Feels<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/when-she-doesnt-respond-to-text\/\">Text Her &#8220;THIS&#8221; When She Doesn&#8217;t Respond<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why a Woman Will Stop Texting as Much<\/h2>\n<p>There are a lot of ways to mess things up with a woman that men don&#8217;t even realize. But most of the time, it comes down to one word.<\/p>\n<p><strong>BOREDOM.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Women judge how much they like a guy by\u00a0how much time she spends thinking about you when you&#8217;re not around.<\/p>\n<p>If she is thinking about you all the time, she assumes its because she really likes you.<\/p>\n<p>If a few days go by and she realizes she&#8217;s barely though of you, she assumes she must not like you that much. It makes sense right?<\/p>\n<p>What is the first sign we&#8217;re in love with someone? It&#8217;s when we can&#8217;t stop thinking about them. That has to be there for a relationship to move forward.<\/p>\n<p>If she&#8217;s not thinking about you when you&#8217;re not around, the relationship dies.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter how great of a connection you and her share in person.\u00a0 It doesn&#8217;t matter if she finds you attractive, funny, interesting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If when she goes home she doesn&#8217;t:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Feel a desire to talk about you with her friends<\/li>\n<li>She doesn&#8217;t anticipate your texts<\/li>\n<li>Sit\u00a0 waiting for you to call<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Then it&#8217;s only a matter of time before she disappears.<\/p>\n<h2>You Must Keep Her Thinking About You<\/h2>\n<p>What most men don&#8217;t understand is that it&#8217;s up to YOU to <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-girl-think-about-you\/\">give her things to think about<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Most men assume if a date goes well that&#8217;s good enough. But it&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>This is why a lot of <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-nice-guys-fail\/\">&#8220;nice guys&#8221;<\/a> wind up blowing it with a girl who initially seemed into them.<\/p>\n<p>If things are too good, too calm, and totally lack any drama, things become boring and uninteresting for her.<\/p>\n<p>Did you ever wonder <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-girls-love-jerks\">why girls chase players<\/a> and bad boys?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s because these guys give her PLENTY to think about.<\/p>\n<p>She sits around wondering why he didn&#8217;t call. She worries that he&#8217;s attracted to her best friend. She wonders if he&#8217;s sleeping with his co-worker. When he canceled the last date she thinks it&#8217;s because he&#8217;s losing interest.<\/p>\n<p>All that drama FORCES her to think about him.<\/p>\n<p>And the more she thinks about him the more she becomes convinced that he&#8217;s THE ONE. That is the way our brains work.<\/p>\n<p>Think about the girls you become obsessed over. Chances she messed with your head a bit, right?<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/regain-upper-hand-with-girl\/\">3 Ways to Regain the &#8220;Upper Hand&#8221; with a Girl<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/psychology-of-ignoring-a-woman\/\">The Psychology of Ignoring a Woman<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-get-a-girl-hooked-on-you\/\">How to Get a Girl &#8220;hooked&#8221; on You (proven by science)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>4 Reasons a Girl Gets Bored with You<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dFWwX2I4hdY\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\">Learn the Scrambler Technique<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How to handle it when a woman\u2019s texts slow down?<\/h2>\n<p>So back to our original question: Does it mean she&#8217;s losing interest if her texts slow down?<\/p>\n<p>At the very least it means she&#8217;s starting to get too comfortable with you and doesn&#8217;t feel the urgency to reach out and make sure you&#8217;re not banging some other girl.<\/p>\n<p>So it means that it is time that you <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/hot-and-cold-formula\/\">begin to mix things up<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s through the <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/examples-of-good-texts\/\">texts you send a girl<\/a>, or how you act around her.<\/p>\n<p>See, most guys when a girl pulls back or her interest slows down completely mess up by acting needy, clingy, or trying even harder to make her like him.<\/p>\n<p>That is the OPPOSITE of what you should be doing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ajf0Mxm3N2c\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">5 Big Mistakes Men Make When a Girl &#8220;Pulls Away&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When a girl&#8217;s interest starts dwindling you have to plant some seeds of doubt about your interest toward her.<\/p>\n<p>You need to switch things around and get her thinking about you.<\/p>\n<p>How do you do it?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you haven&#8217;t read it yet,<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\"> read my Scrambler technique article<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>But the key takeaway from this article is don&#8217;t panic, don&#8217;t get needy if the texts slow down.<\/p>\n<p>Just realize, its time to turn the tables on her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt;\u00a0Signs &gt; Text Slow Down by Bobby Rio \u2022 Updated: August 31, 2022 See Also Do NOT do THIS When a Girl \u201cPulls Away\u201d Why a Girl acts &#8220;hot&#8221; and &#8220;cold&#8221; 5 Signs She\u2019s Just Not Into You Why Has She Gone \u201cCold\u201d Over Text? 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