{"id":379,"date":"2022-08-31T14:04:13","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T14:04:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=379"},"modified":"2022-09-14T12:48:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T12:48:50","slug":"10-things-women-say-and-mean","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/10-things-women-say-and-mean\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Things Women Say (And What They Really Mean)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-likes\">Signs<\/a> &gt; Things Women Say<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Coaching Staff \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: August 31, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/texts-that-reveal-how-she-feels\/\">15 Texts Decoded (what these texts mean)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/girl-is-hot-and-cold\/\">Why a Girl acts \u201chot\u201d and \u201ccold\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/5-signs-shes-just-not-into-you\/\">5 Signs She\u2019s Just Not Into You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1745\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-girls-mean-when-they-say-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"what girls mean when they say\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-girls-mean-when-they-say-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-girls-mean-when-they-say-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-girls-mean-when-they-say-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-girls-mean-when-they-say.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Figuring Out The Verbal Riddles Of Your Crush<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s a dilemma for guys as old as time: she says one thing, but you have a feeling she means something entirely different.<\/p>\n<p>Dating can be tough, fellas.\u00a0Women are as confusing as they are pretty, and many of them expect you to just simply\u00a0<em>figure it out<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>How do you deal with a girl that says one thing, but means another?<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, how do you figure out what she really means?<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s take a look at some examples.<\/p>\n<h3>10 Things Women Say (And What They Really Mean)<\/h3>\n<p>Here are 10 things single women say frequently, along with a best case and worst case scenario translation of what they really mean.<\/p>\n<h3>#1. When a Girl Says: \u201cFine.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s not exactly thrilled with whatever you said or did, but she\u2019s in the process of making peace with it. Give her some space to process it further.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: Things are anything but fine. If you want things to work with her, put in some effort or take back whatever you said.<\/p>\n<h3>#2. When a Girl Says:\u00a0<em>\u201cWe need to talk.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: There\u2019s something on her mind or going on in her life that she thinks you need to know about. Things are about to change, but not necessarily in a bad way. Maybe she got offered a promotion at work or feels like something is missing and wants to give you a chance to fix it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: It\u2019s over, bro. At least she didn\u2019t ghost you.<\/p>\n<h3>#3. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cNothing\u2019s wrong.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: Something is definitely wrong, but she doesn\u2019t think it\u2019s worth the time or energy to explain it to you. Do something nice for her and you\u2019ll be back in her good grace.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>:\u00a0<em>You<\/em>\u00a0are what\u2019s wrong, and are about to get specific examples as to why that\u2019s the case.<\/p>\n<h3>#4. When a girl Says: <em>\u201cK.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: Unfortunately, there\u2019s not really such a thing.\u00a0If you get sent a \u201cK\u201d over text, you\u2019re in trouble. If you like her and want to keep seeing her, you better get to work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: That\u2019s the last text you ever get from her.<\/p>\n<h3>#5. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cThat guy is hot.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She wants to see your response to her interest in other guys. She\u2019s testing the waters to see how you respond. Depending on how you handle her comment, she may actually find you more attractive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: 2 days later, you see her sending <a href=\"https:\/\/www.snapchat.com\/en-US\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Snapchats<\/a> to the aforementioned hot guy you two saw at the gym.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Girls Chase You When You Say &#8220;THIS&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-tips\/\">&#8220;THESE&#8221; Flirting Lines Make Her Want You<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-girls-pull-away\/\">5 Mistakes Men Make When a Girl &#8220;Pulls Away&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>#6. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cLet\u2019s take it slow.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s genuinely interested but just got out of a relationship. She\u2019s interested, but just needs some time between guys. Perhaps maybe, she\u2019s just old-fashioned and prefers to get to know people before she sleeps with them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s dating other people and shopping around for the best option. You\u2019re 1 of 4 guys she\u2019s gotten drinks with this week.<\/p>\n<h3>#7. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cI\u2019m really busy right now, that\u2019s all.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She doesn\u2019t want to stop seeing you completely, and gives you an estimated amount of time as to when she might be ready to date again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: This weekend, she puts multiple photos on social media of her and 2 friends at some downtown venue.\u00a0Yeah, she\u2019s busy- busy not dating you.<\/p>\n<h3>#8. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cI\u2019m not mad.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s not mad enough to end things, but she\u2019s disappointed about something you did. In a way, this almost feels worse. But at least she\u2019s giving you a chance to step up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: You\u2019re about to find out just how \u201cnot mad\u201d she really is. This really could play out in a number of different awful scenarios.<\/p>\n<h3>#9. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cMaybe.\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s mulling over a few different options. She\u2019ll get back to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s mulling over at least one other guy. She probably won\u2019t get back to you.<\/p>\n<h3>#10. When a Girl Says: <em>\u201cAre you seeing anyone else?\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Best Case Scenario<\/strong>: She\u2019s definitely calling you out, but it\u2019s for a good reason.? She sees potential in you and wants to see if you\u2019re serious about her before she commits any more feelings to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Worst Case Scenario<\/strong>: You left your phone on the table, and she saw a text message from? \u201cJenn\u201d with the bumblebee emoji next to it while you were in the bathroom.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/power-over-women\/\">#1 Way to Have &#8220;Power&#8221; Over a Woman<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/older-guy-traits-women-chase\/\">5 &#8220;Older Guy&#8221; Traits Younger Women Chase<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/romantic-tension-women\/\">Use &#8220;Romantic Tension&#8221; To Keep Her Interested<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>5 More Things Girls Say (And What They Really Mean)<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/G3hzyuStX4k\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/quiz\/4\/\">Take the 10-Question Quiz and Get Your Results Instantly<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Signs &gt; Things Women Say by Coaching Staff \u2022 Updated: August 31, 2022 See Also 15 Texts Decoded (what these texts mean) Why a Girl acts \u201chot\u201d and \u201ccold\u201d 5 Signs She\u2019s Just Not Into You Figuring Out The Verbal Riddles Of Your Crush It\u2019s a dilemma for guys as old as time: she [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-379","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=379"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/379\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1746,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/379\/revisions\/1746"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}