{"id":403,"date":"2022-09-07T20:56:31","date_gmt":"2022-09-07T20:56:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=403"},"modified":"2022-09-21T14:42:37","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T14:42:37","slug":"what-to-talk-about-with-girls","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-to-talk-about-with-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Talk About with Girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>\u00a0&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-talk-to-women\/\">Conversation<\/a> &gt; What to Talk About<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Coaching Staff \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: April 20, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><small><strong>See also<\/strong><\/small><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/best-conversation-topics-dating\/\">Best Conversation Topics with Girls<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/verbal-foreplay\/\">Guide to Verbal Foreplay<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/small-talk\/\">20 &#8220;Small Talk&#8221; Tips for Flirting<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1704\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-talk-about-with-girls-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"what to talk about with girls\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-talk-about-with-girls-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-talk-about-with-girls-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-talk-about-with-girls-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-talk-about-with-girls.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Things to Say to a Girl (Explained)<\/h2>\n<p>There are many nuances of conversation, but one of the most important ones is being able to take material you\u2019re given and flush it out into full conversations.\u00a0 So I&#8217;m going to explain what to talk about with girls.<\/p>\n<p>This requires a skill called &#8220;threadcutting&#8221;.\u00a0 Which is the ability to move from topic to topic with a girl.<\/p>\n<p>With the ability to \u201cthreadcut\u201d you can:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Flush out good conversations<\/li>\n<li>Navigate away from bad conversations<\/li>\n<li>Talk about what you want to talk about, when you want to talk about it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It is, quite simply, mastery over conversation.<\/p>\n<h2>#1: Use Situational Relevance<\/h2>\n<p>Master conversationalists innately understand the concept of \u201cSituational Relevance\u201d \u2013 that\u2019s being relevant to the situation at hand.<\/p>\n<p>The easiest way to understand &#8220;Situational Relevance&#8221; is through what happens when a guy isn\u2019t situationally relevant when <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-when-you-flirt\/\">talking to a woman<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll say something like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cHuh?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cThat was random\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhy are you asking me that?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Situational Relevance is not an objectively judged characteristic. If something feels situationally relevant, it is situationally relevant. This is all about perception.<\/p>\n<p>This can be used to your advantage.<\/p>\n<h2>#2: How to Generate Infinite Conversation Material<\/h2>\n<p>The easiest way to create the appearance of Situational Relevance is to take one word or phrase out of a sentence, and use that word or phrase in another, unrelated sentence. This in fact creates the appearance of Situational Relevance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The classical example is:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was cold and snowy outside, so we got on warm clothes, went out, and built a snowman \u2013 then came inside and had hot chocolate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Isolate every meaningful word in the sentence.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They are<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cold<\/li>\n<li>Snowy<\/li>\n<li>Warm<\/li>\n<li>Clothes<\/li>\n<li>Went out<\/li>\n<li>Built<\/li>\n<li>Snowman<\/li>\n<li>Inside<\/li>\n<li>Hot chocolate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Any sentence using one of those words or phrases \u2013 with the meaning of the word unchanged \u2013 will sound relevant to the situation.<\/p>\n<h2>Examples of Situationally Relevant Conversation<\/h2>\n<p>So below are some ways you can take any of the words above, and turn it into something to say to a girl.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah I don\u2019t really like the cold\u2026 I love the seasons in New England, but I\u2019m just about ready to move to Los Angeles so it\u2019s never cold.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh really? I got caught in the record blizzard last year\u2026 it was funny, it was on a Wednesday I think, but I actually had the day off. So when I went outside, there were these huge piles of snow on either side of the road, but the roads and sidewalks were clear.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was cold and snowy outside, so we got on warm clothes, went out, and built a snowman \u2013 then came inside and had hot chocolate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWow, I like getting and staying warm. I remember when I was a kid, I had the biggest, heaviest blanket \u2013 ever. It was a gigantic heavy blue blanket with a picture of a mean looking grizzly bear on it. Loved that thing\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s cool\u2026 yeah, I actually messed up. I was cleaning out my closet and gave a lot of stuff to the Salvation Army, but I didn\u2019t realize just how much of my winter stuff I gave away. When it started getting cold, I actually had to use like Fall clothing and layer it a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Endless Examples of What to Talk About with Girls<\/h3>\n<p><strong><small>See Also:<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-to-talk-about-date\/\">14 Things to Say on a Date<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/best-first-date-questions\/\">19 First Date Questions to Ask Her<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/banter-lines-to-use-on-girls\/\">10 Banter Lines to Use on Girls<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Girls Will Chase You When You Say THIS<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/8-flirting-topics\/\">8 Topics for Sexual Flirting<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How Thread Cutting Works<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Thread Cutting:<\/strong> You pull one word or phrase out of the conversation, then use the word or phrase to form your next sentence or set of sentences.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s really out there, you use a few transition words like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cThat reminds me\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cOh really?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cYeah, I\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This shows that you\u2019re acknowledging what they\u2019re saying, and then moving on to do more.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Using Overarching Themes to Generate Even More Conversation<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>In addition to the words and phrases used in conversation, you can also employ \u201coverarching themes\u201d \u2013 these are elements that aren\u2019t directly said, but are implied by the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was cold and snowy outside, so we got on warm clothes, went out, and built a snowman \u2013 then came inside and had hot chocolate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Overarching themes:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Climate<\/li>\n<li>Weather<\/li>\n<li>Dress<\/li>\n<li>Outdoors<\/li>\n<li>Playing<\/li>\n<li>Acting like a kid again<\/li>\n<li>Creating things<\/li>\n<li>Coming home<\/li>\n<li>Indulging<\/li>\n<li>Sweets<\/li>\n<li>Hot drinks<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Any of those could be used to create a new sentence as well, via the same thread cutting format.<\/p>\n<h2>Some Examples of Thematically Relevant Conversation<\/h2>\n<p>So below are some ways you can take any of the words above, and turn it into something to say to a girl.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was cold and snowy outside, so we got on warm clothes, went out, and built a snowman \u2013 then came inside and had hot chocolate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah, the weather here is crazy\u2026 I\u2019m never sure what it\u2019s going to be one day to the next, but I love being able to make the best of it and go for a quick hike, or skiing, or building a snowman one random day.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s so much fun to act like a kid\u2026 just the other day, I was driving with my friend, and we saw this big, beautiful, green grassy hill, and we totally stopped, pulled over, ran up to the top, and rolled down it. Most fun I\u2019ve had in a real long time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI absolutely love a great hot drink. My favorite is chai tea, with just tons and tons of cinnamon in it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Are you starting to see how easy it is to find what to talk about with girls?<\/p>\n<h2>When and How to Use the Force<\/h2>\n<p>Use threadcutting when you\u2019re bored with or don\u2019t enjoy a conversational topic, something is going stale, or isn\u2019t conducive to a great interaction.<\/p>\n<p>If the topic becomes too serious, too sad, or too tense for your tastes, take one word or theme from the last sentence she said, and flip it into a new sentence via threadcutting.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry about conversations logically flowing when you\u2019re first meeting new women: instead, focus on moving through a wide variety of fun topics and connecting on new and interesting things.<\/p>\n<p>With a great grasp of threadcutting, you\u2019ll be able to vibe your way through conversations.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\">5 &#8220;Words&#8221; That Turn Every Woman On<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chick-crack\/\">&#8220;THESE&#8221; Techniques are Like Crack for Girls<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/13-flirty-lines\/\">13 Flirty Lines to Move Things Forward<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"style-scope ytd-watch-metadata\">The Golden Triangle of Attraction: What to Say to Make a Girl Chase You<\/h3>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/W1ZP185Ha-s\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/charismatic\"><strong>Download Charismatic Conversation Secrets<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating\u00a0&gt; Conversation &gt; What to Talk About by Coaching Staff \u2022 Updated: April 20, 2022 See also Best Conversation Topics with Girls Guide to Verbal Foreplay 20 &#8220;Small Talk&#8221; Tips for Flirting Things to Say to a Girl (Explained) There are many nuances of conversation, but one of the most important ones is being able [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-403","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/403","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=403"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/403\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1873,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/403\/revisions\/1873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=403"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}