{"id":461,"date":"2022-09-06T17:32:23","date_gmt":"2022-09-06T17:32:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=461"},"modified":"2022-09-09T18:38:24","modified_gmt":"2022-09-09T18:38:24","slug":"questions-for-girls","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/questions-for-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Girls THESE Questions to Set &#8220;Sexual Frames&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>\u00a0&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-talk-to-women\/\">Conversation<\/a> &gt; Sexual Questions<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Jon Sinn \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: September 03, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-tension\/\">&#8220;THIS&#8221; Sparks Sexual Tension<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/verbal-foreplay\/\">Guide to Verbal Foreplay<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-teasing\/\">Secrets of Sexual Teasing Explained<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1681\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/questions-to-ask-girls-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"best questions to ask girls\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/questions-to-ask-girls-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/questions-to-ask-girls-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/questions-to-ask-girls-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/questions-to-ask-girls.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Using Questions to Create Double Binds<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>In this article I&#8217;m going break down <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/asking-girls-questions\/\">how I use questions<\/a> and cold reads to create a double bind.<\/p>\n<p>The reason you&#8217;ll do this is because matter how a woman answers it moves her one step closer to your bed.<\/p>\n<p>This is an extremely effective technique which allows you to use a bunch of different tactics like <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/cold-reading-girls\">cold reading<\/a>, pacing, <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-frames\/\">sexual framing<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-rapport-with-woman\/\">building rapport<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Double binds are typically yes or no questions you ask a woman and are able to qualify her as a result of her answer, either way she answers.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Example of a &#8220;Double Bind&#8221; Question to Ask a Girl<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>When I used to live in San Diego, I would meet girls and ask them <em>&#8220;Are you just like the typical Pacific Beach party chick?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is a double bind because I can qualify her answer either way.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>If she says yes, I can give her a high five and say something like\u00a0 <em>&#8220;Yes I love to party too! We should totally get shots!&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<li>If she says no, I can still qualify her by saying something like <em>&#8220;That&#8217;s good, I&#8217;m kinda over the party scene myself.&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Either way I&#8217;m qualifying her, giving her a reason I like her, and building rapport by showing her that we have something in common.<\/p>\n<p>We can take it a step further by then cold reading her on what she just agreed to.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/cold-reading-girls\">cold reads<\/a> are just simple vague statements that are positive and could be true about anyone.<\/p>\n<h2>Using Cold Read to Set a &#8220;Sexual Frame&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>So going back to our party girl example, if she says yes I can throw in a cold read like:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;I always get along with girls that can really party, I feel like they&#8217;re always more independent. Like I bet you do whatever you want regardless of what your friends say. Right?&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I tag on the right at the end to get her to agree.<\/p>\n<p>The more someone says yes, the more likely they are to say yes in the future, according to the principle of commitment and consistency taught by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.influenceatwork.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Robert Cialdini<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;m using the double bind to start <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-frames\/\">sexually framing<\/a> her as someone who does whatever she wants no matter what her friends think. Because she&#8217;s already agreed with my double bind, she&#8217;s going to agree with my cold read and things are going to start heating up.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand if she&#8217;s not a party girl, I might use a cold read like:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;I like that even though you&#8217;re hot, you don&#8217;t feel like you need to party because everyone else is doing it. That&#8217;s very independent of you. I bet you&#8217;re the type of person who does whatever she wants no matter what her friends say right?&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Again either way she answers because I know how to use cold reads, and double binds together I&#8217;m able to start moving the interaction forward, no matter how she answers the question.<\/p>\n<p>As homework try to come up with 1-3 double binds you can use the nest time you?re talking to an attractive woman.<\/p>\n<h2>My #1 Cold Reading Game for Sexual Framing<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/seductionroadmap.com\/strawberrytest\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-452\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/img.png\" alt=\"strawberry field framing\" width=\"417\" height=\"411\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/img.png 417w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/img-300x296.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/seductionroadmap.com\/strawberrytest\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Download the Word-for-Word Script<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">How to Flirt with Girls (Guide)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\">How to Arouse a Woman (Guide)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-women-want-you-to-do-in-bed\/\">What Women Want in Bed (Guide)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">How to Attract a Woman (Guide)<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/tell-if-a-girl-likes-you\/\">How to Tell if She Likes You (Guide)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating\u00a0&gt; Conversation &gt; Sexual Questions by Jon Sinn \u2022 Updated: September 03, 2022 See Also &#8220;THIS&#8221; Sparks Sexual Tension Guide to Verbal Foreplay Secrets of Sexual Teasing Explained Using Questions to Create Double Binds In this article I&#8217;m going break down how I use questions and cold reads to create a double bind. 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