{"id":505,"date":"2022-09-14T17:19:28","date_gmt":"2022-09-14T17:19:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=505"},"modified":"2022-09-14T17:19:28","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T17:19:28","slug":"calling-a-girl","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/calling-a-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Rules for Calling a Girl and Sparking Attraction"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/texting-girls\/\">Texting<\/a> &gt; Calling a Girl<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Rob Judge \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: August 30, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/funny-flirty-texts-to-send-a-girl\/\">Flirty Texts to Send a Girl<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/texts-that-reveal-how-she-feels\/\">15 Texts That Reveal How She Feels<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/10-rules-for-texting-a-girl\/\">10 Rules for Texting Girls<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1787 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-say-when-you-call-a-girl-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"calling a girl\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-say-when-you-call-a-girl-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-say-when-you-call-a-girl-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-say-when-you-call-a-girl-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/what-to-say-when-you-call-a-girl.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>When You Can\u2019t Text, Call \u2013 A Rundown on Phone Game Basics<\/h2>\n<p>Snagging the digits of babes is a deceptively glorious feat. While it testifies to the strength of your game, there\u2019s no guarantee of any future romance.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s what happens\u00a0<em>after<\/em>\u00a0getting the number when the men separate from the boys,\u00a0the players\u00a0from the herbs.<\/p>\n<p>While it\u2019s <em>highly<\/em>\u00a0recommended you play it safe and\u00a0navigate her number to a date via text\u00a0(thus creating more \u201cgreat moments in text message history\u201d), sometimes that\u2019s just not an option.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019s old fashioned. Regardless, once in a blue moon a situation will present itself where you have to sack up and actually make a phone call.<\/p>\n<p>I think it\u2019s safe to assume we all know how\u00a0<em>not<\/em>\u00a0to follow up on a number.<\/p>\n<p>Just think of that cringe-worthy\u00a0<em>Swingers<\/em>\u00a0scene where Mikey pathetically professes his neediness and insecurities to the answering machine of a girl he just met. Yet how many of us have also ruined great interactions because we were clueless on how to work a phone number?<\/p>\n<p>Well, don\u2019t let Alexander Graham Bell cock block you ever again. Despite the advent of cell phones, phone game basics remain the same. And with some hot tips, you\u2019ll be converting those digits into\u00a0hot dates.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Rule #1:\u00a0 Call ASAP<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The \u201c3-day rule\u201d is a myth.<\/p>\n<p>The longer you wait to call, the longer she has to forget the reasons she gave you her number in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Follow up either the day you met her, or the next day.<\/p>\n<p>The idea is to get her on the phone while she\u2019s still buzzing from the initial interaction. This way she\u2019s more inclined to answer your future calls, or return your voicemails.<\/p>\n<p>Not only does it get her comfortable taking your calls, but it also alleviates you of days of needless pressure worrying about \u201cwhat to say.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Rule #2: <\/strong><strong>Hit the ground running<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Everyone fears awkward phone silences \u2013 especially during the first call. After exchanging pleasantries, don\u2019t let the conversation go stale by being unprepared.<\/p>\n<p>Have a story or social commentary ready to carry the conversation for the first minute or so.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not suggesting you deliver a Shakespearean soliloquy, but a quick and punchy anecdote will grease the wheels of good conversation. Get her relaxed and she\u2019ll be more inclined to\u00a0<em>share<\/em>\u00a0(read: babble), allowing you to kick back and listen.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also:<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/telling-stories-on-date\/\">3 Steps for telling a good story<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/best-conversation-topics-dating\/\">Best Conversation Topics<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-when-you-flirt\/\">9 Things to Say When Flirting with Her<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><strong>Rule #3: <\/strong><strong>Call When You&#8217;re Out<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The best time to call is when you\u2019re out-and-about.<\/p>\n<p>While it may seem counter-intuitive, the\u00a0<em>less<\/em>\u00a0focused you are on the call the better. As opposed to sitting in front of the phone and fretting over the outcome, calling while you\u2019re on the run keeps the conversation light, spontaneous, and fun.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, it shows you lead a busy, interesting life devoid of neediness.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Rule #4: Keep it Brief on the Phone<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Talking on the phone is great for getting to know someone, but only\u00a0<em>after<\/em>\u00a0the first date. You don\u2019t want her thinking of you as just a \u201cphone friend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While it\u2019s important she\u2019s comfortable talking to you,\u00a0<em>too much<\/em>\u00a0comfort will land you in the dreaded \u201cfriend zone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Before the first date, no phone conversation should exceed ten minutes.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t let more than three conversations end without making plans to meet up.<\/p>\n<p>Setting up a date\u00a0<em>was<\/em>\u00a0the reason you took her number,\u00a0<em>right<\/em>?<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Rule #5: Leaving a Voicemail<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If you get the voicemail, do not take it as an opportunity to wax poetic.<\/p>\n<p>If you project a needy, creepy, or weepy vibe on the voicemail, not only will she not call you back, but she might also play your voicemail for the comedic enjoyment of her friends.<\/p>\n<p>So avoid the situation altogether by applying the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/KISS_principle\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">KISS method<\/a> and keep it simple, stupid.<\/p>\n<p>Take the advice of that stud Joe Friday and deliver \u201cjust the facts.\u201d A hello, your name, and an invitation to return your call is all that\u2019s necessary.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Rule #6: Remind Her of Your Good Times<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If she gave you her real number, you obviously did something right during the initial interaction. And reminding her of those high points is a great way to inspire future meet ups.<\/p>\n<p>It shouldn\u2019t be too hard to figure out what she liked about you. The jokes and commonalities you shared are the ingredients that\u2019ll reignite her sizzling attraction. Sprinkle them into the conversation and she\u2019ll be salivating to see you as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, attractive women give out their number to lots of guys with the intention of only meeting a small percentage of them. While it\u2019s a sobering truth of modern dating, make sure you\u2019re of the chosen few by running solid phone game.<\/p>\n<p>Keeping these tips in mind the next time you score some digits will make sure the romance doesn\u2019t end after the beep.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\">5 &#8220;Words&#8221; That Turn Every Woman On<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-formulas\/\">4 &#8220;Flirting Formulas&#8221; to Follow with Girls<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Girls Chase When You Say &#8216;THIS&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/guide-to-complimenting-girls\/\">Ultimate Guide to Complimenting a Girl<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-chemistry-with-woman\/\">#1 Secret to Sparking Chemistry<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Texting &gt; Calling a Girl by Rob Judge \u2022 Updated: August 30, 2022 See Also Flirty Texts to Send a Girl 15 Texts That Reveal How She Feels 10 Rules for Texting Girls When You Can\u2019t Text, Call \u2013 A Rundown on Phone Game Basics Snagging the digits of babes is a deceptively glorious [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-505","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/505","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=505"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/505\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1825,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/505\/revisions\/1825"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=505"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}