{"id":546,"date":"2022-08-30T16:04:59","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T16:04:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=546"},"modified":"2022-09-08T14:25:20","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T14:25:20","slug":"increase-her-attraction","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/increase-her-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"The &#8220;Take Away&#8221; Technique to Increase Her Desire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating <\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Takeaway Technique<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: August 30, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also:<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-get-a-girl-hooked-on-you\/\">#1 Way to Get a Girl \u201cHooked\u201d on You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Women Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/traits-girls-chase\/\">5 Traits That Women Fall For in a Man<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1493\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/the-takeaway-technique-1024x576.png\" alt=\"increase girl's attraction\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/the-takeaway-technique-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/the-takeaway-technique-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/the-takeaway-technique-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/the-takeaway-technique.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Understanding &#8220;Buying Temperature&#8221; and Attraction<\/h2>\n<p>One of the greatest most effective sales techniques throughout history has been \u201cthe takeaway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The Takeaway occurs when the object you\u2019re considering purchasing is suddenly pulled from the shelves.<\/p>\n<p>I saw the power of \u201cthe takeaway\u201d firsthand while working as real estate agent selling houses. A client would spend weeks deciding whether or not to put an offer in on a house, and then suddenly the house would go off the market when an offer was put in by another buyer.<\/p>\n<p>Client number one instantly \u201chad\u201d to have the house.<\/p>\n<p>I first discovered <strong>the power of \u201cthe takeaway\u201d<\/strong> for amplifying attraction back in college.<\/p>\n<p>I discovered this accidentally but the results were staggering. Over the years I had to work on finding that fine line between displaying some &#8220;disinterest&#8221; to amplify attraction, and losing the girl to another suitor by showing too much disinterest.<\/p>\n<p>In this article I will walk you through The Art of The Takeaway.\u00a0 And why its such a great <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/4-chase-triggers\/\">&#8220;chase trigger&#8221;<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>The Power of &#8220;The Takeaway&#8221; In Creating Attraction<\/h2>\n<p>Back in college my friends and I would throw massive 400 people keggers.<\/p>\n<p>Although these parties would always be fun, the main purpose of them was to make money. At $5 a red cup a normal party would bring in close to two thousand dollars. Because of this fact, my intention at these parties was to make sure they ran smoothly. This meant making sure parking was situated, kegs were full, money was collected, fights were broken up, and everyone was having a good time.<\/p>\n<p>My duty as party organizer led me to stumble upon the amazing power of the takeaway.<\/p>\n<p>See, because meeting girls was secondary at these parties to making money, I would often get pulled away from a good conversation. I&#8217;d disappear from the party for an hour to pick up another keg, or spend twenty minutes babysitting a puking sorority girl.<\/p>\n<p>Something fascinating began to happen&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>My \u201cbusyness\u201d at these parties turned me into a hot commodity by the end of the night.<\/p>\n<h2>Example of a Natural &#8220;Take Away&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>For instance, I would be talking to Girl A. I would have displayed some interest, engaged her in a good conversation, and escalated some kino. But I could still tell that the girl was not quite sold. Maybe I would catch her glancing around for someone better, or maybe she would just seem uncomfortable with further kino escalation.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, I could tell that she was not ready to be kissed.<\/p>\n<p>In the middle of my conversation with Girl A, Girl B would come over and tell me that one of my friends needs me upstairs help carry a keg.<\/p>\n<p>On my walk to my friends I would casually chat with Girl B, while telling Girl A I would be back in a few.<\/p>\n<p>After helping with the keg, I would get side tracked with some other job, before finally running into Girl A an hour or so later.<\/p>\n<p>What I would often find is: without having to do nearly anything but re-engage the conversation\u2026 attraction was spiked.<\/p>\n<p>We would jump right past the comfort phase, and right into the seduction. Within ten more minutes we would be kissing.<\/p>\n<p>What happened?<\/p>\n<p>During my time away from her my value started skyrocketing in her mind.<\/p>\n<p>I went from being a \u201csure deal\u201d to a guy who may not ever come back.<\/p>\n<p>She would probably imagine that I was off making a move on Girl B or one of the other countless girls at the party. So when I finally came back, she would make the decision instantly to progress the interaction, to avoid the risk of losing me again.<\/p>\n<p>I caught on to this technique quickly and amongst my friends we termed in \u201cThe Walkaway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also:<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/psychology-of-ignoring-a-woman\/\">The Psychology of Ignoring a Woman<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/hot-and-cold-formula\/\">The &#8220;Hot&#8221; and &#8220;Cold&#8221; Formula<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\">Why &#8220;the Scrambler&#8221; Makes Her Chase You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Increasing a Girl&#8217;s Attraction by Turning it Into \u201cThe Takeaway\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>There was a negative to \u201cThe Walkaway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The negative was that I would lose many girls because of their impatience, their ADD, or their wounded sense of pride.<\/p>\n<p>Some girls just simply wouldn\u2019t wait around for me to return. I realized that I needed to take the principles behind \u201cthe walkaway\u201d but use them in a way in which I didn\u2019t need to leave the girl alone for vast periods of time.<\/p>\n<p>I found that I could use subtle indicators of disinterest, or takeaways, that would achieve the same result.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The idea behind a &#8220;takeaway&#8221; is to make her do two things:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li>She should realize that you could walk away at any time.<\/li>\n<li>She should realize that she needs to put more effort in to keep you interested.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>So instead of walking away from the girl I would do subtle little things to keep her off balance and make her work to keep my interest.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Examples include:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Breaking eye contact<\/li>\n<li>Talking to others more than her<\/li>\n<li>Talking to a friend<\/li>\n<li>Leaving for just a few minutes to talk to someone else<\/li>\n<li>Acting distracted<\/li>\n<li>Pushing her off if she initiates some touching or gets too close<\/li>\n<li>Checking text messages<\/li>\n<li>Turning back to her<\/li>\n<li>Saying \u201cI need another drink.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>The Secret to the &#8220;Take Away&#8221; Technique<\/h2>\n<p>The secret to using takeaways effectively is to make sure you reward her when she does something to win back your attention.<\/p>\n<p>An old dating instructor I knew would call these <strong>Directives<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>A directive is giving her some indicator of what she needs to do next to please you.<\/p>\n<p>A directive is basically a way to make her work for your approval.<\/p>\n<p>By her working to keep your interest, her attraction towards you increases.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, every time she does anything for you she is displaying another IOI signaling to you that the interaction is progressing.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Examples of Directives<\/strong>:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cI\u2019ll take another beer\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI\u2019m cold, but power puff girls like you aren\u2019t allowed to hug me.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Start playing with a prop to get her to ask you about it.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI love stupid jokes, but girls never tell me any.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Ask her a qualifying question.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cYour turn for an interesting story\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cBefore I answer you have to\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Any kino command or body language to tell her what to do next.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The whole idea of these directives, given after the use of a takeaway, is to get her to do things that you can reward her for.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, the more she works to keep you interested, <strong>the more her buying temperature increases.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you find that after creating an initial attraction, the girl seems to lose interest midway through the conversation than you really need to make use of the power of the takeaway.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-a-girl-miss-you\/\">7 Ways to Make a Woman Miss You<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\">These 5 &#8220;Words&#8221; Turn Every Woman On<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/girl-tests-formula\/\">Secret Formula For Passing Female &#8220;Tests&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How to Make Her Put You On a &#8220;Pedestal&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/n93QuQWemBw\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/3stepsclass\/\"><strong>Register for the Free 3 Steps to Status, Power, and Charisma Class<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating &gt; Attraction &gt; Takeaway Technique by Bobby Rio \u2022 Updated: August 30, 2022 See Also: #1 Way to Get a Girl \u201cHooked\u201d on You 99.9% of Women Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d 5 Traits That Women Fall For in a Man Understanding &#8220;Buying Temperature&#8221; and Attraction One of the greatest most effective sales [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-546","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/546","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=546"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1494,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/546\/revisions\/1494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}