{"id":731,"date":"2022-09-06T16:54:56","date_gmt":"2022-09-06T16:54:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=731"},"modified":"2022-09-08T15:44:45","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T15:44:45","slug":"make-your-move-on-girl","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-your-move-on-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Should Escalate The Vibe with a Woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Escalation<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Chris &#8220;60&#8221; Anderson<\/small><br \/>\n<small>Updated: March 20, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also:<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-frames\/\">Setting a &#8220;Sexual Frame&#8221; with a Woman<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-tension\/\">The Secret of Sexual Tension<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\">How to Arouse a Woman (guide)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1639\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/maxresdefault-34-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"escalate the vibe\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/maxresdefault-34-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/maxresdefault-34-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/maxresdefault-34-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/maxresdefault-34.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Getting Over Your Fear of Escalation<\/h2>\n<p>One of the biggest fears guys have is revealing that they are interested in a woman.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, many aspiring seducers end up spending too much time in what is referred to as the &#8220;attraction phase&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>This is quite amusing because in my opinion there is no separate attraction phase.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most of my easiest and fastest seductions all had one important thing in common.<\/p>\n<p>The attraction and escalation stages were happening at the same time.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Escalation is Attractive<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The first mindset to internalize is that escalation is an attractive quality.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, escalation may be the most important quality to display if you want to get a particular woman interested in you.<\/p>\n<p>Making such a bold move, especially quickly, shows confidence and immediately makes women notice you. Any average guy can make a move after they know a woman is definitely interested. Big deal.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Escalating The Vibe<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Of course when I talk about escalating quickly as being attractive I&#8217;m not talking about groping or cat-calling women as they walk by.<\/p>\n<p>In fact it&#8217;s just the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of worrying about complimenting or touching women, your initial focus should be on what I call &#8220;escalating the vibe&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Escalating vibe basically means the tone of your interactions should quickly progress from social and friendly to more seductive and serious.<\/p>\n<p>An example of a seductive vibe would be holding her gaze, moving very close to her and being comfortable with silence.<\/p>\n<p>By putting out just a little bit of seductive energy you can create lots of tension. And the good news is, tension between a man and a woman is usually felt as sexual tension.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/\">5 &#8220;Words That Turn Women On<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chick-crack\/\">&#8220;THESE&#8221; 5 Techniques Spark the Vibe<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-teasing\/\">Sexual Teasing Explained<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Creepy or Connection?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Now here is where things get interesting.<\/p>\n<p>This feeling of tension you can create with your seductive vibe is similar to the physical symptoms a woman feels when she is attracted to a man. Her heart is beating fast, she starts blushing, and may even begin to feel nervous.<\/p>\n<p>In some cases, women will feel these same powerful emotions even if she is not officially attracted to you yet.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if a woman isn&#8217;t enjoying your vibe she will interpret the tension you created as awkward. As such, she may respond by giving you the &#8220;you&#8217;re kind of creepy\u201d face.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately if you want to be a seducer of women and not a dancing monkey there is always the small risk of this happening.<\/p>\n<p>No worries. Her rejection of you will be non-verbal and you can both walk away and save face. It&#8217;s not like you confessed your feelings or tried to kiss her and failed.<\/p>\n<p>However, if she has some interest in you that feeling of tension you created will make her feel even more attracted. You go from &#8220;kind of interesting&#8221; to &#8220;extremely sexy&#8221; in seconds.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How To Make it ON with Her<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>By only revealing your interest with vibe, not verbally or physically, sexual tension will start to build.<\/p>\n<p>If she&#8217;s interested in you she will long for a release to that tension.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, she secretly hopes that you are feeling this non-verbal connection too and it\u2019s not just her.<\/p>\n<p>One way you can relieve some of her tension is by grabbing and then caressing her hand. Since you haven&#8217;t touched her much, if at all, the first time you touch her hand creates a spark which can lead to mutual hand caressing.<\/p>\n<p>Ever had a time in your life when you first touched a woman&#8217;s hand and you both instantly felt a powerful physical connection. It\u2019s like that.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Seduce Her Non-Verbally<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Most mainstream seduction advice puts a heavy emphasis on escalating verbally and physically.<\/p>\n<p>For example, I&#8217;m sure you have been told countless times to use teasing, touch her a lot and then go for the kiss.<\/p>\n<p>In my opinion escalating with seductive eye contact, silence and proximity can be way more powerful than anything you could ever say verbally or do physically.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, trying to escalate by touching her a lot can actually reduce sexual tension because she already knows your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>I know many guys still view escalation as this scary moment of truth where they put it all on the line.<\/p>\n<p>However <strong>&#8220;escalating the vibe&#8221;<\/strong> is actually quite simple to do and virtually risk-free. It only requires being silent, listening and enjoying the amazing woman in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>Now that sounds like something any man can do.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wussy-mistakes\/\">2 &#8220;Friend Zone&#8221; Mistakes That Kill the Vibe<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/verbal-foreplay\/\">Guide to &#8220;Verbal Foreplay&#8221;<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-any-woman-want-you\">3 Words That Make a Woman Want You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Sexual Tension Explained<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Lxf1Y_pw0Q8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chris-anderson\/\"><strong>Get One-on-One Coaching with Chris\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Attraction &gt; Escalation by Chris &#8220;60&#8221; Anderson Updated: March 20, 2022 See Also: Setting a &#8220;Sexual Frame&#8221; with a Woman The Secret of Sexual Tension How to Arouse a Woman (guide) Getting Over Your Fear of Escalation One of the biggest fears guys have is revealing that they are interested in a woman. 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