{"id":737,"date":"2022-09-06T17:08:44","date_gmt":"2022-09-06T17:08:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=737"},"modified":"2022-09-08T15:29:21","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T15:29:21","slug":"sexual-tension","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-tension\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Sexual Tension? (Here\u2019s the Secret)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Sexual Tension<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Chris &#8220;60&#8221; Anderson<\/small><br \/>\n<small>Updated: June 17, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also:<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-your-move-on-girl\/\">Escalating the &#8220;Vibe&#8221; with a Woman<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99.9% of Women Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wussy-mistakes\/\">2 &#8220;Wussy&#8221; Mistakes That Keep You Stuck in Friend Zone<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1363\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/THIS-Sexual-Tension2-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/THIS-Sexual-Tension2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/THIS-Sexual-Tension2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/THIS-Sexual-Tension2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/THIS-Sexual-Tension2.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Why &#8220;Sexual Tension&#8221; is so Important<\/h2>\n<p>I talk a lot about &#8220;tension&#8221; being the key to attracting women, but really <strong>what is &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/spark-sexual-tension\/\">sexual tension<\/a>&#8220;<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Is it like that show Friends where Ross and Rachel secretly like each other, but never hookup<\/p>\n<p>Oh hell NO man.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m talking about <strong>SEXUAL TENSION<\/strong> as in SEX<\/p>\n<p>Real <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/what-is-sexual-tension-and-is-it-healthy-5191220\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sexual tension<\/a> is when you want to sleep with a woman so bad that she KNOWS it(but without having to tell her.)<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re so turned on she can actually FEEL your &#8220;sexual desire.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And as that tension grows she gets more and more aroused, until she absolutely must have you!<\/p>\n<p>Now once you get a girl to this point all you have to do is avoid the 3 big &#8220;screwups&#8221; (<a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-women-test-men\/\">failing her tests<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/neediness\/\">being needy<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-your-move-on-girl\/\">waiting too long to make a move<\/a>) and you can pretty much guarantee you end up in bed with her tonight.<\/p>\n<p>Sound too easy?<\/p>\n<h2>Your BIGGEST problem with women is THIS (don&#8217;t hate me)<\/h2>\n<p>Well, there&#8217;s still one deadly mistake that holds guys back and cripples their chances of ever seeing her naked.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s probably going to come as a TOTAL SHOCK<\/p>\n<p>You ready for this?<\/p>\n<p>Your biggest problem with women is that you don&#8217;t really want to sleep with them!<\/p>\n<p>Well, I mean you do, but it&#8217;s not your first goal.<\/p>\n<p>Let me explain?<\/p>\n<p>You see, as guys we have two core needs. The need for sex and the need for affection.<\/p>\n<p>And these 2 needs are constantly battling each other to be at the forefront of our minds.<\/p>\n<p>For example, have you ever checked out a girl from a distance and started imaging what she might look like naked. You may have even turned to your buddy and proclaimed <em>&#8220;I would bang her so hard bro.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yeah, from 50 feet away you were operating from your desire for sex.<\/p>\n<p>But what happens when you actually go talk to her? All of a sudden your talking about puppy dogs and ice cream. You avoid her eyes, stand too far away and make that I&#8217;m just happy to be talking to you face.<\/p>\n<p>(and you don&#8217;t dare sneak a peek at her &#8220;body&#8221; because you&#8217;re scared to get caught checking her out)<\/p>\n<p>Yep, you are now operating from your NEED for affection.<\/p>\n<p>And the worst part is she can actually feel that neediness. (this is a HUGE turnoff for women when done too early in a relationship)<\/p>\n<h3>Needing Her Affection Decreases the Sexual Tension<\/h3>\n<p>Look there&#8217;s nothing wrong with wanting female affection. (that&#8217;s what&#8217;s so awesome about girls) but if you start acting like you really just need a hug before you&#8217;ve even kissed her, it&#8217;s not going to go well<\/p>\n<p>Okay, nod your head if you&#8217;ve ever had this happen?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s late, you realize it&#8217;s just you at your place, and you start to get in the mood. You might surf internet porn or if your &#8220;old school&#8221; you pop a tape into your VCR.<\/p>\n<p>Notice how when we&#8217;re relaxed and have no worries we automatically divert back to Need #1 which is our desire for sex.<\/p>\n<p>Nice!<\/p>\n<p>But what happens when you go out to a social gathering like a party, bar or club? And you start to notice all of the better looking guys and groups of unimpressed<br \/>\ngirls checking their phones.<\/p>\n<p>Yep, you start to feel self-conscious.<\/p>\n<p>All of a sudden you&#8217;re trying to impress people you shouldn&#8217;t care less about.<\/p>\n<p>You try to be funny, interesting and cool, hoping to make women like you.<\/p>\n<p>(ever notice how most of these silly pickup artist tactics all seem geared to make women like you, instead of making them HORNY for you)<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line, your need for VALIDATION has taken over your brain again. Sex is no longer your main goal.<\/p>\n<p>And let&#8217;s face it, your local bar is not the most &#8220;boner friendly&#8221; environment.<\/p>\n<p>So when you go out to meet women (and especially when you&#8217;re talking to one), you can bet your need for validation and affection is going to win out over your need for sex.<\/p>\n<p>And that means there will be NO <strong>sexual tension<\/strong>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>(and it also means there will be NO girls in your bed)<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\">The Guide to Arousing a Woman<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-women-want-you-to-do-in-bed\/\">10 Tips to Get Better in Bed<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/create-chemistry-with-woman\/\">The #1 Secret to Chemistry with Women<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How to Spark &#8220;Sexual Tension&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>So what can you do to turn the tables and make sure your operating from Need #1 when it counts. To guarantee you always give off that &#8220;sexual vibe&#8221; that<br \/>\nwomen can&#8217;t resist?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the good news is, I recorded a short video that shows you exactly how to communicate your sexual interest without looking like a sleezeball and getting rejected.<\/p>\n<p>Now, is this trick sneaky? (hell yeah!)<\/p>\n<p>Are you going to be cheating by using it? (you bet)<\/p>\n<p>And the best part is there is nothing special you need to say or do.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, this move is so under the radar she won&#8217;t have a clue what you&#8217;re up to (this becomes very important for hooking up with your &#8220;female friends&#8221; or girls at work)<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s surprisingly easy once you know the secret.<\/p>\n<h2>5 Secrets of Sexual Tension Explained<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Lxf1Y_pw0Q8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/chris-anderson\/\"><strong>Get One-on-One Coaching with Chris Anderson<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Attraction &gt; Sexual Tension by Chris &#8220;60&#8221; Anderson Updated: June 17, 2022 See Also: Escalating the &#8220;Vibe&#8221; with a Woman 99.9% of Women Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d 2 &#8220;Wussy&#8221; Mistakes That Keep You Stuck in Friend Zone Why &#8220;Sexual Tension&#8221; is so Important I talk a lot about &#8220;tension&#8221; being the key [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-737","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/737","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=737"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/737\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1657,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/737\/revisions\/1657"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=737"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}