{"id":747,"date":"2022-09-01T19:32:49","date_gmt":"2022-09-01T19:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=747"},"modified":"2022-09-14T13:38:09","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T13:38:09","slug":"make-a-move-on-female-friend","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-a-move-on-female-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Can\u2019t \u2018Make a Move\u2019 on Your Female Friend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attract-women\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Friend Zone<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Chris Anderson \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: March 20, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small><small>See Also:<\/small><\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-your-move-on-girl\/\">Escalating the \u201cVibe\u201d with a Woman<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/sexual-tension\">Secret of Sexual Tension<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wussy-mistakes\/\">2 \u201cFriend Zone\u201d Mistakes<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1804\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/make-a-move-on-a-female-friend-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"make a move on a female friend\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/make-a-move-on-a-female-friend-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/make-a-move-on-a-female-friend-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/make-a-move-on-a-female-friend-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/make-a-move-on-a-female-friend.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Your Big Secret \u201cFriend Zone\u201d Fear<\/h2>\n<p>For years, I hid a dark secret I was too ashamed to admit.<\/p>\n<p>I was one of the most popular dating coaches in the world, but I still felt like a failure.<\/p>\n<p>Because the truth is, whenever I started to develop feelings for a female friend, I would always end up in the friend zone.<\/p>\n<p>It didn&#8217;t matter that I could go to any social gathering and collect several phone numbers or even regularly bring girls back to my place.<\/p>\n<p>Because whenever my feelings for a female friend would surface?<\/p>\n<p>I instantly became paralyzed by fear<\/p>\n<p>I felt boxed in.<\/p>\n<p>Unable to make a move.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d spend days stuck in my head, going back and forth trying to figure out of she liked me, or if I was just imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>However, as I started to open up to other &#8220;successful&#8221; guys about this problem, they all told me they had the same struggles.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s when it hit me.<\/p>\n<p>Being &#8220;handsome&#8221; or &#8220;great with women&#8221; does NOT protect you from falling into the <strong>friend zone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Heck, even rock stars and celebrities (that can have almost any woman they want) still sometimes end up as &#8220;just the friend.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yep. This is a problem EVERY GUY is dealing with.<\/p>\n<p>But why is that?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the first thing I discovered was that&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Being a &#8220;Challenge&#8221; vs &#8220;Being a Wussy&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aO_MrmqwZec\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/friendshefallsfor.com\/friendsheloves\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Free Class: Become the Friend She Falls in Love With<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>The &#8220;Friend Zone&#8221; isn&#8217;t a Bad Place to Be<\/h2>\n<p>Being &#8220;her friend&#8221; doesn&#8217;t mean you are somehow BAD with women.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it actually means you are GOOD with women.<\/p>\n<p>I mean this girl enjoys being with you, thinks you&#8217;re funny, and feels comfortable around you.<\/p>\n<p>All great things.<\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s simple right, just make you move already.<\/p>\n<p>Well, not so fast.<\/p>\n<p>See, when you hang around a girl that has ZERO interest in you, you don&#8217;t feel any fear. She doesn&#8217;t like you, so you don&#8217;t care.<\/p>\n<p>And when a girl hangs all over you (as if you were some famous rock star) you don&#8217;t feel any fear either. It&#8217;s easy to make your move.<\/p>\n<p>But whenever you have that &#8220;strong connection&#8221; with a female friend&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll notice that some days she seems into you, but she&#8217;s definitely NEVER all over you.<\/p>\n<p>(this is actually a really good sign, as I&#8217;ll reveal in a moment)<\/p>\n<p>In fact, her interest in you seems to come and go.<\/p>\n<p>One day she&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">flirting<\/a> with you, and the next day she seems neutral.<\/p>\n<p>Yep, you are now dealing with the worst form of kryptonite to men.<\/p>\n<h2>Mixed Signals From a Female Friend<\/h2>\n<p>See as a man, your biggest fear in life is NOT &#8220;being rejected.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Getting tuned down by some random girl at a bar may sting, but it doesn&#8217;t shatter your confidence or destroy your ego.<\/p>\n<p>Nope.<\/p>\n<p>Our BIGGEST fear as guys, (the one that keeps us at night) is <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/misreading-girl-signs\/\">misreading a woman&#8217;s signals<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>As if once we reveal our feelings she is going to laugh in our face and say<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;You thought I liked you? Where&#8217;d you get that crazy idea?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So, like I did, you keep your feelings for her a secret?<\/p>\n<p>Deluding yourself that one day you will finally make that ONE BIG move like confessing your feelings or lunging for a kiss<\/p>\n<p>But, we both know you&#8217;ll probably never try and kiss her and even if you did, you&#8217;re unlikely to get the response you were hoping for.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Chris, you&#8217;re a really great guy, but I don&#8217;t want to ruin our friendship&#8221;<\/em> (sigh)<\/p>\n<p>So is all of this just hopeless?<\/p>\n<p>Are we destined to spend our lives in the &#8220;friend zone&#8221; pining for the unrequited love of our female friends?<\/p>\n<p>Not a chance.<\/p>\n<h2>How to Make a Move on a Female Friend<\/h2>\n<p>Because we discovered\u00a0there is a way to reveal your interest in a female friend that actually makes her WANT YOU back<\/p>\n<p>A simple way to <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/tell-if-a-girl-likes-you\/\">decode all of her &#8220;mixed signals&#8221;<\/a> so you will know exactly when and when not to make you move (this is crucial)<\/p>\n<p>And if revealing your interest in a female friend is the only way to get her.<\/p>\n<p>But confessing your feelings or waiting for the perfect moment to kiss her rarely works&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>What can you do?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the good news is, my friend <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/\">Bobby Rio<\/a> and I are hosting a FREE ON-DEMAND master class called <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/friendshefallsfor.com\/friendsheloves\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;How To Become The Friend She Falls in Love With&#8221;<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In this class you will discover exactly how to reveal your interest in a female friend with ZERO chance of being rejected<\/p>\n<p>(Hint: this doesn&#8217;t involve having to kiss her or confessing your feelings over text)<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the technique we want to share is 100% invisible, so your female friend won&#8217;t even know you are using it.<\/p>\n<p>You see, whether we want to or not we are always communicating something when we interact with our female friends<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s not the words women are paying attention to<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s YOUR VIBE<\/p>\n<p>Let us show you why mastering the seductive vibe is\u00a0<strong>the key to getting that female friend you want into bed and making her your girlfriend<\/strong>\u00a0(without having to worry about mixed signals ever again)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/friendshefallsfor.com\/friendsheloves\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Register for the Free &#8220;Friend She Falls in Love With&#8221; Class<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Attraction &gt; Friend Zone by Chris Anderson \u2022 Updated: March 20, 2022 See Also: Escalating the \u201cVibe\u201d with a Woman Secret of Sexual Tension 2 \u201cFriend Zone\u201d Mistakes Your Big Secret \u201cFriend Zone\u201d Fear For years, I hid a dark secret I was too ashamed to admit. I was one of the most popular [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-posts.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-747","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/747","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=747"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/747\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1806,"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/747\/revisions\/1806"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=747"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}