{"id":80,"date":"2022-06-28T21:10:41","date_gmt":"2022-06-28T21:10:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=80"},"modified":"2022-09-08T14:15:05","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T14:15:05","slug":"handling-rude-behavior","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/handling-rude-behavior\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Handle \u201cCrappy Behavior\u201d From Girls\u2026 (without ruining things)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating<\/a>&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/handling-rude-behavior\/\">Attraction<\/a> &gt; Personal Boundaries<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio \u2022 <\/small><small>Updated: August 30, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/girl-tests-formula\/\">A Formula for Passing Girl&#8217;s Tests<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/testing-women\/\">Creating &#8220;Tests&#8221; to Spark Attraction<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/regain-upper-hand-with-girl\/\">3 Ways to Regain the &#8220;Upper Hand&#8221; with a Girl<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1600\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/set-your-boundaries-1024x576.png\" alt=\"personal boundaries\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/set-your-boundaries-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/set-your-boundaries-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/set-your-boundaries-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/set-your-boundaries.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>How to NOT be a Push Over with Women<\/h2>\n<p>What do these three situations have in common?<\/p>\n<p>1. You lend a girl money, she tells you she&#8217;s going to pay you back in a week, but now a month has gone by, and neither of you have brought it up even though you really need the money.<\/p>\n<p>2. A girl cancels plans for the second time in a row, you tell yourself you&#8217;re going to wait till she takes the initiative to invite you to hang out, but then you give in and send a text asking her out again.<\/p>\n<p>3. You&#8217;re on a date with a girl, she&#8217;s on her phone texting one of her friends the entire time, inside you&#8217;re pissed and annoyed, but you plaster a smile on your face and act like everything is fine.<\/p>\n<p>So what do they have in common?<\/p>\n<p>In all three situations the man is displaying a lack of personal boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>In essence, he&#8217;s willing to take shit, and swallow it with a smile on his face because he&#8217;s afraid that if he stands up for himself, he&#8217;ll lose the girl.<\/p>\n<p>Lack of personal boundaries is one of the core issues that men face in their dating life.<\/p>\n<h2>So what are &#8220;Personal Boundaries&#8221;?<\/h2>\n<p>Personal boundaries are when you essentially draw a line in the sand and say to yourself, this is behavior I won?t tolerate no matter how attracted or interested I am in a girl.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/increase-her-attraction\/\">WILLING TO WALK AWAY<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Because here&#8217;s the thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Every time you accept shitty behavior or give in you&#8217;re chipping away at your self respect, and the respect you get from others.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s a hint you lack personal boundaries<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you afraid to bring something up or confront a girl because you&#8217;re afraid the conflict will scare her away?<\/p>\n<p>If so, you lack personal boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>And the minute someone notices this, they&#8217;ll unconsciously realize they have power over you.\u00a0 And the more a woman notices this, <strong>the more <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/why-women-test-men\/\">the woman will test you<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me clear about something, displaying personal boundaries isn&#8217;t about using a &#8220;tactic&#8221; to attract a girl.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It&#8217;s about self respect.<\/li>\n<li>It&#8217;s about integrity.<\/li>\n<li>It&#8217;s about character.<\/li>\n<li>It&#8217;s about living a life on your terms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And the ironic thing is that when a woman encounters a man who has strong boundaries, she knows that he values and respects himself, and she makes the assumption that he&#8217;s a man of strong character.<\/p>\n<p>So whats the first step?<\/p>\n<h2>Decide How Much Will You Deal with Crap From a Woman<\/h2>\n<p>The first step is being honest about what you&#8217;re not willing to accept.<\/p>\n<p>It could be things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Saying yes to things I don&#8217;t want to do<\/li>\n<li>Not calling someone out who mistreats you or disrespects you<\/li>\n<li>Allowing someone to take advantage of your generosity<\/li>\n<li>Giving constantly without getting an equal amount in return<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Make your list of things you won&#8217;t accept.<\/p>\n<p>Define them, and them communicate then.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Example of Displaying Personal Boundaries:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You could say something like this to a girl who has canceled plans on you, or seems to be stringing you along never making time to hang out with you.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;I find flakey girls frustrating to deal with. So tell you what, balls in your court. If you want to hang out, you got my number.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And then unless she contacts you with a firm date and time to hang out, you don\u2019t reach out to her again.<\/p>\n<p>Girls might not like it.<\/p>\n<p>But they will respect it.<\/p>\n<h2>Your #1 Source of Power Over all Women<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sr-vmuorxn4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/endofdating.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Watch the End of Men Video<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>See Also<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-a-girl-miss-you\/\">7 Ways to Make a Woman Miss You<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/attraction-techniques\/\">99.9% of Women Fall for THESE 5 &#8220;Tricks&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-more-attracted\/\">5 Ways to Make a Girl MORE ATTRACTED<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating&gt; Attraction &gt; Personal Boundaries by Bobby Rio \u2022 Updated: August 30, 2022 See Also A Formula for Passing Girl&#8217;s Tests Creating &#8220;Tests&#8221; to Spark Attraction 3 Ways to Regain the &#8220;Upper Hand&#8221; with a Girl How to NOT be a Push Over with Women What do these three situations have in common? 1. 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