{"id":951,"date":"2022-08-09T15:20:27","date_gmt":"2022-08-09T15:20:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/?page_id=951"},"modified":"2022-09-08T14:09:18","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T14:09:18","slug":"words-that-turn-women-on","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/words-that-turn-women-on\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Words That Turn Women On"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/\">Dating Advice<\/a> &gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-flirt-with-girls\/\">Flirting<\/a> &gt; Words<\/small><br \/>\n<small>by Bobby Rio<\/small><br \/>\n<small>Updated: August 08, 2022<\/small><\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/what-say-to-make-her-love-you\/\">99% of Girls Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/13-flirty-lines\/\">13 Flirty Lines That Work<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/verbal-foreplay\/\">Guide to Verbal Foreplay<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1488\" src=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/say-these-words-1024x576.png\" alt=\"words that turn women on\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/say-these-words-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/say-these-words-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/say-these-words-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/say-these-words.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>How do you turn a woman on<\/h2>\n<p>How do you get her excited for you, wanting you, feeling attraction for you?<\/p>\n<p>Most guys try all the WRONG methods:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Gifts<\/li>\n<li>Compliments<\/li>\n<li>Showing her how nice you are<\/li>\n<li>Being agreeable<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>None of that works.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Women are turned on by feeling an emotional experience that triggers desire.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In this article, I&#8217;m going to give you five words that you can say to a woman that turn her on.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen guys struggle for years because they don&#8217;t grasp how attraction works.<\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t realize that it&#8217;s a reaction.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an instinct.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s something that kicks in that she can&#8217;t quite control.<\/p>\n<p>And when you try to control that through things like complimenting her, or doing her favors, or trying to entertain her, it has the opposite effect.<\/p>\n<p>Women are not turned on by niceness or compatibility.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>What Feelings Turn A Woman On<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Challenge: Women crave a mental challenge<\/li>\n<li>Intimacy: Anytime you create an intimate vibe with a woman, it&#8217;s a natural turn-on.<\/li>\n<li>Tension: Sexual tension or any element of tension makes women feel turned-on. As Chris Anderson says, anytime a man and woman stand close, there&#8217;s a spark of tension that creates attraction.<\/li>\n<li>Ambiguity: When a woman isn&#8217;t sure what something means, it draws her in.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The five <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=cHaWTtbUaqs\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">words that turn women<\/a> on are words that create these emotions in a woman.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Word #1: \u201cNo\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The most attractive word that you can say to a woman is \u201cno.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It creates tension and challenge.<\/p>\n<p>Asserting <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/handling-rude-behavior\/\">personal boundaries<\/a> is an attractive quality of a high-value man.<\/p>\n<p>When a woman sees that you respect yourself, it turns her on.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Saying &#8220;No&#8221; to Unreasonable Requests<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Saying \u201cno\u201d could be in relation to her asking you something unreasonable.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you meet a new woman at a bar and after speaking for five seconds she says, &#8220;Buy me a drink.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A nice guy will do it, because he&#8217;s so happy to be talking to her. He thinks buying a drink will win her affection.<\/p>\n<p>But a woman will actually be more turned on by a guy that goes, &#8220;No, we just started talking. Let&#8217;s talk first and if it goes, well, I&#8217;ll buy you a drink.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A lot of guys that are stuck in the friend zone are afraid to say no.<\/p>\n<p>A woman might say, &#8220;Can you help me move furniture?\u201d or \u201cCan you drive me across town?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When a nice guy says \u201cyes,\u201d she\u2019ll see him as somebody that she can take advantage of.<\/p>\n<p>But if you say, &#8220;I&#8217;m really not in the mood to move furniture, but I&#8217;d love to hang out,&#8221; that&#8217;s way more attractive.<\/p>\n<h2>Word #2: \u201cSexy\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>The word \u201csexy\u201d creates intimacy and <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-your-move-on-girl\/\">sexual tension<\/a>, but you\u2019ve got to use it the right way.<\/p>\n<p>If you just met a new woman or you\u2019re in the first few seconds of a date and you say, &#8220;You&#8217;re sexy,&#8221; It comes across as disingenuous and a little too much.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, say it when you two are back at your place after the date. Tell her how sexy she is.<\/p>\n<p>As you get several minutes into a date, start slipping the word \u201csexy\u201d into the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>This one word differentiates a platonic conversation from a flirtatious one. You&#8217;re not going to use the word \u201csexy\u201d talking to somebody you&#8217;re not interested in.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a word that signifies interest, but you want to do it in a way that&#8217;s not overly aggressive.<\/p>\n<p>Use it to build some tension, then let that tension be released.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The Elbow Example<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You could say, <em>&#8220;Hey, you have really sexy\u2026 elbows.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That pause after the word \u201csexy\u201d is to make her expect that you\u2019re going to \u201cbreasts\u201d or \u201clegs\u201d or \u201csmile.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While she\u2019s expecting that, it\u2019s going to build tension.<\/p>\n<p>Then when you say \u201celbows,\u201d it turns out to be a joke and the tension is diffused.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of \u201celbows,\u201d you could say, <em>&#8220;You have a really sexy\u2026 overbite\u201d<\/em> or <em>\u201cYou have a really sexy\u2026 earlobe.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Because you diffuse the tension after a moment, you&#8217;re not creating so much tension that things get weird.<\/p>\n<p>Yet you\u2019ve also brought the tension and intimacy into the conversation to show that it\u2019s not platonic. Because you wouldn\u2019t speak like that with any of your guy friends.<\/p>\n<h2>Word #3: \u201cTrouble\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>\u201cTrouble\u201d is a fun word, because one of the things that turns women on is <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/flirting-formulas\/\">playfulness and flirtatiousness<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Back in college, most of my friends had crushes on this girl named Ashley. My friend James asked her out, but none of us expected him to get her. Not only did he get her, but they\u2019re married now with kids.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that he did with her early on was he gave her the nickname \u201cTrouble,\u201d and he would always call her that.<\/p>\n<p>That worked because it\u2019s a little challenging and a little playful. It also signifies a \u201cyou and me\u201d vibe. Plus there\u2019s a saying: \u201cHe who names, owns.\u201d It creates an extra intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>You can do this, too.<\/p>\n<p>If you tell her, <em>&#8220;I\u2019m going to call you Trouble,\u201d<\/em> she\u2019s going to say, <em>&#8220;Why do you call me that?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You can say, <em>&#8220;Well, the way you walk\u201d or \u201cthe way you just flipped your hair\u201d<\/em> \u2013 make up any reason, then bring it home with,<em> \u201cI can just tell you&#8217;re trouble.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It creates that flirtatiousness and intimacy that turn women on.<\/p>\n<p><strong><small>See Also<\/small><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-any-woman-want-you\">3 Words That Make Any Woman Want You<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/guide-to-complimenting-girls\/\">Ultimate Guide to Complimenting Girls<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<li><small><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/how-to-arouse-a-woman\/\">How to Arouse a Woman (Step-by-Step)<\/a><\/small><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Word #4: \u201cLittle\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>In evolutionary psychology, men are seen as dominant, big, strong, and <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/make-more-attracted\/\">masculine,<\/a> while women are smaller and daintier.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, in the job market, women are equal to men and should be treated as such. But in the realm of courtship and intimacy, most women enjoy taking on the feminine role in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t NEED a man to protect them, but they ENJOY having it because it builds feelings of comfort and being wanted. This leads to feelings of intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why calling her \u201clittle\u201d will stimulate her.<\/p>\n<p>If you say, in a flirtatious way, &#8220;You&#8217;re so little,\u201d or \u201cYou&#8217;re just a little girl,&#8221; it creates that intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s an innocent word that creates a very flirtatious undertone.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Use In Context<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When you\u2019re first hooking up with a woman, there\u2019s a moment where she takes off her high heels.<\/p>\n<p>You may catch her looking up at you, <em>showing <\/em>you that she\u2019s little.<\/p>\n<p>When women want to turn you on, they accentuate their femininity.<\/p>\n<p>So when you tell her, \u201cYou&#8217;re so little. Come here,\u201d you&#8217;re validating her femininity in the right context\u2026 and creating intimacy.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Word #5: The F-Word\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The f-word I\u2019m talking about here is\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFriend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One of the feelings you want to create in a woman is challenge.<\/p>\n<p>You want her to think, &#8220;What does this guy think of me? What does he want?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s say you&#8217;re doing all these other things. You&#8217;ve told her \u201cno,\u201d used the word \u201csexy,\u201d nicknamed her \u201cTrouble,\u201d and called her \u201clittle.\u201d Now there&#8217;s a flirtatious vibe.<\/p>\n<p>Then you throw in the word \u201cfriend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say you\u2019re about to meet up with some other people. You tell her, <em>&#8220;You\u2019re such a cool friend. I\u2019ve got to introduce you to somebody.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now her mind is like, &#8220;He&#8217;s been calling me \u2018sexy\u2019 and we have this vibe. And now he says I\u2019m just a friend?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That uncertainty is addictive for a woman. It\u2019s creates a <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/romantic-tension-women\/\">mental challenge<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Any time you introduce a challenge, you get her attention.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever had things going well with a woman and then she throws in that word \u201cfriend,\u201d but she\u2019s flirting and sending mixed signals, it draws you in. It makes you wonder, &#8220;What&#8217;s going on here?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If it works on you, it will work on her. It brings out her instinct to chase you.<\/p>\n<h2>3 Phrases That Make a Girl Chase You<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rrwCxVV9Qp8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bobbyriotraining.com\/advice\/unlock-the-scrambler-system\/\"><strong>Discover the &#8220;Scrambler Technique&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><strong>The Next Step<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Doing favors, showing your compatibility, and being the nice guy will never work.<\/p>\n<p>These subtle and innocent words are way more effective. They elicit a woman\u2019s instinct to feel desire for you.<\/p>\n<p>When you understand <em>why <\/em>these words work, you start to understand other words that fulfill these same principles.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll start thinking, &#8220;What are other things I can say that are going to trigger this instinct in her to chase me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I gave you five here, but if you want more examples, Rob Judge put together a PDF with 66 words that he consciously brings into conversations.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s called<a href=\"https:\/\/magneticmessaging.com\/triggerwords\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong> Sexual Trigger Words<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can buy it at <a href=\"https:\/\/magneticmessaging.com\/triggerwords\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this link<\/a> and start experimenting with turning women on.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating Advice &gt; Flirting &gt; Words by Bobby Rio Updated: August 08, 2022 See Also 99% of Girls Chase You When You Say \u201cTHIS\u201d 13 Flirty Lines That Work Guide to Verbal Foreplay How do you turn a woman on How do you get her excited for you, wanting you, feeling attraction for you? 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