From The Desk Of
Bobby Rio,
Professional Dating Coach
Short cuts.
Every one loves short cuts. And cheat sheets. It’s human nature.
Speaking of Cheat Sheets…
Remember what you learned yesterday?
Women use the opinion of the crowd as a shortcut to make up their own mind.
So knowing that…
If you could make a girl believe one thing about you, what do you think would most make her want to date you?
That you’re rich? That you’re packing nine inches?
That you’re insanely confident? That you’re talented, passionate, intelligent? That you’re the energizer bunny in bed?
If you guessed any of these things you’d be wrong for 90% of the women out there.
If you want to get a woman to believe any one thing about you it should be:
That you are wanted by other women
Many of my personal clients hire me to get a specific girl re-attracted to them. And over-and-over I explain, nothing is more effective than jealousy and making a woman feel as if she has to compete for your attraction.
That is it.
If a woman thinks other women are attracted to you and want to be with you she will want to make you her boyfriend or have sex with you.
If she thinks you don’t usually get girls like her, even if she likes you she will put the breaks on.
Most guys never wind up with the woman they are really attracted to because they act like a guy who’s not used to being with a woman like her.
I remember back in the seventh grade I sat across from Suzy.
She was a year younger than me and saw me in the hallway told one of my friends I was cute. And asked if I wanted to eat lunch with her.
She was so pretty and I had never had a girl like me before, so I was nervous.
I got more awkward the longer we sat there. Which only made her more uncomfortable.
Finally she said “its cute you don’t; have to be so nervous.”
I thought it was a good sign that she said it was cute.
But after that she never talked to me again.
The fact that I was nervous around her told her that I probably had not eaten lunch with many pretty girls.
Which meant?
Pretty girls probably didn’t go for a guy like me. So she moved on.
When I graduated college I met this girl Tara.
She was amazing.
We went on a couple dates and I started thinking she was ‘the one’.
I referred to her as “Wifey” to all my friends.
We had loads in common and she had an innocent girl next door cuteness to her.
Because I liked her so and didn’t want to lose her I made sure I answered her texts right away, whenever she asked me to hang out I dropped plans to meet up with her, and even sent her a big bouquet of flowers before our 4th date.
Sitting in a Sushi Bar on our fourth date, she stutters for a second than says ‘you know, you’re really nice guy but I don’t want to lead you and would rather we just be friends’
Why?
The fact that I was so willing to rush into a relationship her told her I probably didn’t have many other options.
Which meant?
If I don’t have other options its because other girls aren’t chasing me. So she moved on.
Here’s a question, you might want to know the answer too; how, how do women know that other women, are attracted to you, just by looking at you?
Here’s the beautiful thing, they don’t, they’re absolutely guessing, and they are pretty good at it too, but they are not perfect at it.
If you know the exact techniques, the exact recipe, for sex, that I’m going to reveal to you over the next month, you can make any woman think, that other women are climbing over each other, to get at your jock.
If you want to get women do and say things that create the impression you have options and other women want you.
If you want to be single do things that create the impression that you don’t have many options.
The problem is that most guys have been told to do things like compliment a woman, buy her things, tell her how you feel, but doing these things give off the impression that don’t have many options and probably haven’t been with too many attractive women.
I will give you an example.
See, a lot of guys will wait to make a move on a woman and won’t try to kiss her on the first dat.
They think they’re being respectful and you’re showing a woman that they want to get to know her. But what you are really showing her is that you’re taking the date way too seriously.
See, the guys who have lots of options always go for the kiss if they are attracted to a woman because they aren’t scared of being rejected. They’ll just move on to another girl.
If you want to get women do and say things that create the impression you have options and other women want you.
Its THAT simple.
Make it happen!
From The Desk Of
Bobby Rio,
Professional Dating Coach
P.S. There is even a MUCH MORE powerful way to make a woman think you are ‘in demand.’
And it involves how you talk to her. I don’t want to say much about it now because I’ll be covering it in detail on Day 10.