Direct, confidential guidance for the rare client who wants my personal involvement.

I am not currently accepting a traditional roster of private coaching clients.

However, I occasionally consider a limited number of private advisory engagements for men facing a significant dating, relationship, marriage, or personal transformation challenge.

These engagements are designed for someone who does not simply want another course, a few general suggestions, or occasional accountability.

He wants me to personally examine his situation, identify what is really holding him back, and help him build a clear strategy for changing it.

Private advisory engagements begin at $10,000+

THIS IS NOT TRADITIONAL WEEKLY COACHING

I have spent more than 17 years studying attraction, masculine psychology, relationship dynamics, social intelligence, and the hidden patterns that cause men to repeatedly lose control of their situations.

At this level, my role is not to give you a collection of dating tips.

It is to step back, look at the entire picture, and identify the deeper problem that may be difficult for you—or anyone too close to the situation—to see.

Depending on the engagement, we may work on:

Rebuilding attraction inside a marriage or long-term relationship
Breaking a recurring pattern of chasing, overinvesting, or losing your frame
Developing the confidence and social intelligence to attract higher-quality women
Navigating a complicated breakup, separation, or relationship transition
Rebuilding your identity after years of becoming passive, predictable, or disconnected
Creating a personalized strategy for your dating life, relationships, lifestyle, and personal growth
Identifying the specific attitudes and behaviors quietly lowering how women perceive you

Every engagement is different because every man’s situation is different.

WHO PRIVATE ADVISORY IS FOR

This may be appropriate for you when:

You are successful in most areas of your life, but your dating or relationship situation remains the one problem you have not been able to solve.

You have already consumed a significant amount of information, but you are struggling to apply it to your specific circumstances.

You are dealing with a high-stakes situation where generic advice is not enough.

You value privacy, directness, and highly personalized feedback.

You are willing to be challenged, change your behavior, and take action—not simply talk about the problem.

You specifically want my perspective and personal involvement.

SUBMIT CONFIDENTIAL APPLICATION

WHAT A PRIVATE ENGAGEMENT MAY INCLUDE

The exact structure is determined after reviewing your application and circumstances.

A private advisory engagement may include:

A comprehensive assessment of your current situation
Private strategy sessions with me
A personalized action plan
Direct feedback on your behavior, communication, decisions, and blind spots
Review of relevant messages, interactions, relationship patterns, or dating situations
Follow-up sessions to evaluate results and adjust the strategy
Limited private access between sessions, depending on the engagement

This is not an open-ended arrangement, and it is not designed to create long-term dependence.

The objective is to identify the highest-leverage changes, give you a clear direction, and help you regain control of the situation.

THE INVESTMENT

Private advisory engagements begin at:

$10,000+

The final investment depends on the complexity of the situation, the level of access required, and the length of the engagement.

Submitting an application does not guarantee that I will personally accept the engagement.

I review each request individually and only move forward when I believe my involvement would create a meaningful advantage.

YOU MAY NOT NEED TO WORK WITH ME DIRECTLY

For most men, working with one of our senior coaches is the more practical option.

My coaches have been personally trained in my methods, work inside the same systems and philosophies, and provide significantly more accessible coaching options.

If I believe one of our coaches is better suited to your situation, my team may recommend the appropriate person or program.

Private advisory is reserved for the individual who has a specific reason for wanting my direct involvement—and is comfortable making the corresponding investment.

For more general coach, learn more about working with my team here.

REQUEST PRIVATE ADVISORY

Complete the confidential application below.

Please provide enough detail for me to understand:

Your current situation
The result you are trying to achieve
What you have already attempted
Why you believe direct private advisory is appropriate
Whether you are prepared to invest $10,000 or more

Qualified applicants will be contacted by a member of my team regarding the next step.