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We have several of the top dating coaches in the world available to help you achieve every dating goal you have, or to simply get that one “hard to get” girl, and finally make her yours.

Work one-on-one with one of our professional dating coaches. Together you will create a vision for where you want to be in dating and social life, then develop specific plans to get you there and rid yourself of "nice guy" habits, unattractive qualities, and gain the skills to live the life you know you deserve.

F.A.Q.

What is Bobby Rio Attraction Coaching, and how does it work?+

Bobby Rio Attraction Coaching is a hands-on system for men who don't want theory---they want results with their specific situation. Whether you've got a woman you can't get out of your head, or you're just tired of spinning your wheels in dating, coaching gives you the clarity and game plan you've been missing.

Here's how it works:

  • We start with your exact situation. Every guy's story is different---maybe it's a coworker you've been stuck in the friendzone with, maybe it's a girlfriend pulling away, or maybe you're getting back into dating after years out of the game. We cut through the confusion and give you step-by-step moves tailored to you.
  • You'll get tested strategies, not guesswork. Over the past 15 years, we've worked with thousands of men, from CEOs to regular guys, and developed proven frameworks like The Scrambler and The Invisible Game. You'll learn how to flip the chase dynamic, spark attraction fast, and keep her invested.
  • We work in real time. You bring your coach the texts, the dates, the roadblocks---you'll get direct feedback and exact words to use so you're never second-guessing what to do next.
  • The goal isn't just winning her over. It's making you the kind of man women choose---confident, grounded, and in control of the dynamic.

Bottom line: Coaching with me isn't about "trying harder" or "being nicer." It's about rewiring how you approach women and attraction so you finally get results that stick.

Why do I need a coach?+

Because when it comes to women, most guys are way too close to their own situation to see it clearly. You second-guess yourself, overthink every move, and usually end up doing the very things that push her further away. A coach cuts through all of that.

What qualifications do our coaches have?+

Our coaching team isn't made up of random "life coaches" reading from a script. These are guys who have lived it, mastered it, and spent the last 15+ years helping men like you get real results.

  • Rob Judge & Chris Anderson -- These are two of the very coaches I learned from myself when I was coming up. They've each put in thousands of hours working with men one-on-one, breaking down everything from sparking attraction on a first date to reigniting interest in a long-term relationship. Their track record is proven, and they've been refining these strategies for over a decade.
  • Calvin James -- Before stepping into coaching, Calvin personally went through over 100 private coaching sessions with me, mastering every element of the game inside and out. For the past 5 years he's been coaching men on his own, and the results his clients have gotten speak for themselves---guys turning friendzone situations into relationships, getting back with women they thought they'd lost, and finally breaking free from the "nice guy" trap.

Combined, our team has logged well over 1,000+ hours of coaching men through just about every situation imaginable. More importantly, we know how to translate those years of experience into a clear plan that works for you right now.

When you work with one of our coaches, you're not just getting theory---you're getting a shortcut to results, backed by decades of combined experience and a system that's been battle-tested with men from all walks of life.

How fast will I see results?+

Most guys notice a shift almost immediately---because the first thing we do is fix the moves that are pushing her away right now. That alone can change the dynamic in days, sometimes even overnight.

For example:

  • A client who hadn't heard back from a woman in weeks got a reply the same day after we tweaked his text.
  • Another went from being "just a friend" to her chasing him within two weeks of following his custom plan.
  • And plenty of guys in relationships have reignited their wife or girlfriend's interest in a matter of days once they stopped making the subtle mistakes killing attraction.

Of course, every situation is different. But because coaching is personalized, you're not wasting time on trial and error. You'll have a clear game plan from day one---and for most men, that means faster results than they ever imagined possible.

How much time does coaching require?+

It depends on your goals. Some guys book a single session to bust through a sticking point or get clarity on one specific situation. Others commit to a series of sessions to completely transform how they interact with women and rebuild their entire approach to attraction. Either way---you set the pace, and we tailor the coaching to fit your needs.

Can I choose which coach I work with?+

Yes---absolutely. We actually encourage it. Each of our three coaches has their own style, so we recommend checking out their videos, reading their posts inside the community, and then deciding who feels like the best fit for you. This way, you'll be working with the coach you connect with most.

How is coaching delivered?+

Once you sign up, you'll start by filling out a short intake form where you explain your situation, what you want to get out of coaching, and any specific questions you have. From there, you'll pick a date and time that works for you.

When your session comes, you'll get a private link for a video or audio call with your coach. You'll also have the option to have the session recorded---so you can rewatch it anytime and never miss a detail.

How is this different from just watching your videos or buying a course?+

Videos and courses give you the playbook---but coaching is like having the coach on the sidelines calling the plays for your exact game.

With coaching, we take your unique situation, cut through the noise, and give you step-by-step moves that fit her personality, your dynamic, and the mistakes you might not even realize you're making. Instead of wondering "does this apply to me?"---you get certainty, clarity, and immediate feedback you can use the same day.

Bottom line: courses and videos give you knowledge. Coaching gives you results.

What if my situation is "too complicated" or she's already losing interest?+

No situation is too complicated. We've helped guys in every scenario---from being ghosted, to years in the friendzone, to wives pulling away after decades of marriage. That's exactly when coaching is most powerful. Every day you wait makes it harder to turn things around. The sooner you start, the faster we can flip the dynamic. Chances are, we've seen it before and know how to handle it.

Can this work if I'm older / divorced / inexperienced?+

Yes. In fact, many of our clients are in their 40s, 50s, or 60s, or are just getting back into dating. Attraction isn't about age---it's about the frame you project, and we'll show you how to reset that.

Will this actually work for me---or am I just "different"?+

Almost every guy feels that way at first. But once you see how women respond to the changes we make, you'll realize this isn't theory---it's built around you and your unique situation.

Is coaching confidential?+

Yes---completely. Everything you share stays 100% private between you and your coach. We don't share your information, your situation, or your recordings with anyone. Many of our clients are professionals, executives, or men in sensitive situations, and confidentiality is always our top priority.

What if I can't make my scheduled session?+

No problem. As long as you give at least 2 hours' notice, you can simply reschedule for a time that works better for you. We keep it flexible so you don't lose your session.

What if I live outside the U.S.?+

That's not an issue at all---we work with clients all over the world. Our coaches schedule sessions during both daytime and evening hours, and with a little flexibility we can almost always find a time that works for you, no matter your time zone. In fact, we've successfully coached men from over 20 different countries---so wherever you are, we've got you covered.

Bobby Rio

Chief Coach

Bobby is the founder of the Untamed Man, & and leads his team of coaches. While Bobby no longer accepts new private clients, he is hands-on with his coaches, and active in the community making sure every client sees success.

"A woman doesn’t put you in the friend zone, you put yourself in the friend zone by the way you act toward her"

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Chris Anderson

Head Coach

Chris "Sixty Years of Challenge" Anderson is the #1 coach in the world at teaching guys how to quickly build explosive sexual chemistry with a woman. He is also know for teaching his "Under the Radar" where to escalate, build attraction, & have a woman sexually attracted to you.

"Escalation is Attractive"

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Rob Judge

Head Coach

Rob is the co-creator of Magnetic Messaging, The Scrambler, & The Dating Apocalypse programs. He was once known as the top pickup artist in the world. And is now the most renown coach on using dating apps to expand your social life and meet more women.

"Once a girl knows she has you its over, and you’ll never have her"

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Coach Calvin

Coach

Calvin has become one of the top coaches in the industry and has grown a big following over the past few years. And has been getting amazing results for his clients.

"You think its one way. But its another way"

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