Dating > Attraction > Gift for woman
by Chris “60” Anderson
Updated: March 20, 2022
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Thoughts = Love with Women
If you want to make a woman fall in love with you, you’ve to get her thinking about you.
We all think about dozens of different things each day (sports, bills, work, our favorite show) but we usually only have one main OBSESSION.
That one topic that just seems to play in our heads non-stop.
Now this could be a good thing or a bad thing.
If you’ve ever been depressed, then you know how hard it can be to replay those same negative thought loops over and over.
But what about when it’s a GOOD obsession?
Like when you’re thinking about the one girl you really like.
It gives you a lot of JOY right?
You think about her in the car, while you’re waiting on line for the ATM, and before you got to sleep.
Thinking about her helps pass the time and makes normally boring moments seem fun.
The Greatest Gift (Thinking)
In other words –
Her greatest gift to you is that she’s given you something enjoyable to think about. You may not even be dating her yet, but you’re really enjoying all of that “thinking” about her.
Well. the same thing holds true for women. If not more so.She wants to be THINKING about something fun too.
Again, the greatest gift you can give a woman is something enjoyable to THINK about.
But most guys want to take away all of her “thinking time”
For example –
When you confess your feeings and spill your guts after 2 dates, its not just that you’re being NEEDY. iI’s that you took all of her WONDERING time away. Now she has nothing fun to think about.
It’s 2am and instead of laying in bed thinking – “I wonder how much he likes me” she’s thinking about how much work she needs to get done at the office tomorrow.
When she already knows she has you wrapped around her finger, she’d rather think about cleaning her apartment than think about you.
And she hates to think about cleaning.
Look –
Part of a relationship is when you are with the person, but there’s also the part when you are gone. Where she gets to THINK about you and look forward to BEING together.
You never want to take that part away.That’s why you don’t reveal your whole life story after one date (no mystery) or confess your love after just a few weeks (it leaves nothing to wonder about).
A lot of guys I coach worry that not instantly letting a woman know how much they like her is somehow mean.
That’s not mean.
What’s mean is taking away a woman’s wondering time.
What’s mean is making her think of exams and car payments instead of something pleasurable.
Remember, we think all day long. We can’t stop.
So the greatest gift you can ever give HER is something enjoyable to think about.
You!
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